Advice please! Someone shed light on my exs behaviour..

[Chuts]

So me and my ex have broken up 12 days now. we have been together 10 months. its been 11 days since no contact. he broke up with me on the fone and kept saying it wasnt what he wanted but he felt the past month our little arguements meant we wernt getting on and he didnt want them to continue. the next day he txt me with a sad face but i was hurt and confused and didnt reply. 5 days after that he unfriended me on facebook but kept me as a friend on instagram and twitter. Last night he posted up pics on instagram and twitter (both which he rarely uses) of him out with his mates. however, my friend saw him out in a bar and said she thought he looked so miserable, he wasnt enjoying himself and looked like he didnt want to be there. im so confused by all this. i still love him very much and feel like the relationship should not have ended. i just dont understand his unfriending and attention seeking behaviour. As i said it day 12 no contact for me.

[Wiseman2]

He may be sad that you broke up even though he thought it was the best thing to do. It would be best to go no contact and block/delete him from social media. What where the arguments about?

he broke up with me on the fone and kept saying it wasnt what he wanted but he felt the past month our little arguements meant we wernt getting on and he didnt want them to continue.

[Chuts]

if i block or delete him does that not look immature on my part and show him that ive moved on? im already doing the no contact and am on day 12. the arguements were about him going a whole day without a txt or call. i know people are busy but we always make time for those we love.

[Wiseman2]

Yes you want to block and delete to move on. How old is he? It sounds like he didn't want to be tethered to texting a lot.

Texting is not love or a relationship. It's how the in person situation is that matters and fighting about texting indicated incompatibility with communication.

if i block or delete him does that not look immature on my part and show him that ive moved on? i know people are busy but we always make time for those we love.

[Chuts]

he is 26. he didnt believe that communication was important whereas i value it and believe that it should be implemented everyday.

[ThatwasThen]

he is 26. he didnt believe that communication was important whereas i value it and believe that it should be implemented everyday.

Then you were with the wrong guy so do your best to stop creeping his social media if you don't want to block and delete and ask your friends not to tell you when they see him. It's time to do the work you need to do to get over him so you can find someone that wants the same amount of communication as you do.