Zaito Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 So my girlfriend is planning to break up in 3 months.. should i continue loving her and spend good time together even if i know in the end we are going to break up or should i show her that i will not care about her anymore..she keeps telling me that she loves me but she said that she doesnt see us together in the future and keep telling me that we are a completely different from each other Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 neither .....just end it now and walk away ... has she got an actual time and date set as well ...dear god Link to comment
chitown9 Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 I think it is weird that she has set a date to break up with you. Most people do not do that; they just break up with you. What is up with that? chi Link to comment
annie24 Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 I don't understand the date - what is happening 3 months from now? Link to comment
Matt3939 Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 She might have wrote it down on her calander in pen instead of pencil Link to comment
Zaito Posted November 6, 2016 Author Share Posted November 6, 2016 3 months from now our contract in the cruise ship will finish..so she said that after this contract then we will have to break up and just be friends...she is european and i am an asian.. Link to comment
annie24 Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 If she wants to break up and not try to work on staying together, then best to just break up now instead of delaying the inevitable. Link to comment
chitown9 Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 If she wants to break up and not try to work on staying together, then best to just break up now instead of delaying the inevitable. Yes, it is this. It appears that once your contract ends that she has no intentions of even communicating with you, so consider it a done deal now. chi Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 Maybe sleep with her a few more times to get that out of your system but concentrate on emotionally detaching. Then beat her to the punch and dump her early... Link to comment
Zaito Posted November 6, 2016 Author Share Posted November 6, 2016 Well she was begging me before to keep in touch with her after we break up but i insist that I will not keep in touch with her because she is going for another contract with her crush which is one of our colleague on the ship(though the guy has no idea about it)..so she gets upset after I told her that..I mean I know that there is no chance to change her mind but she keep saying that we will see when this contract ends...we've been 7 years together and now she's saying that we are getting old and need to find our partner in life since we are getting old..she doesnt see me as her future partner Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 She might have wrote it down on her calander in pen instead of pencil lol ^^^ @ OP: She doesn't see me as her future partner. yea... just end it now... or do what KbbKoop77 suggested and then call it a day. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 Break up with her now. It's completely pointless to continue. Link to comment
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