Seetheugly2 Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 Hi all. I have a dilemma in my home life. Some advice would be greatly appreciated. I am in a relationship with my current partner for about two years now and things have been going down hill fast for both of us. We rarely interact sexually and or share P.D.A. in private or public for that matter. I have been watching our relationship dwindle to almost nothing. He gets on my nerves and I do the same to him. It's sad because we once had something kind and genuinely beautiful and now we are strangers once again. I feel like a dog begging for his attention. One thing that strains the relationship is his children and my own children. Neither one of us particularly like the other ones kids. It's obvious no dancing around the subject. I view his grown children as nagging and I tolerate them and the talk all kind of garbage about me. Not that I care anyway. I can tell he feels the same way about my kids too. The future looks dull and gloomy I'm not sure what to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lester Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 Leave, and never again confuse real commitment/vows with living in/taking care of a building. Sorry! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clarisse Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 You're not affectionate or sexual with each other. You get on each other's nerves. You don't like each other's kids. You see a bleak future. He's cheating on you (according to your other thread). Not only do I think you should leave him, I think you should do it TODAY. Don't waste one more moment of your life (or your children's!). Run fast. Run far. Run now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 Do you live together? Do either of your kids live with you full time or do your or his just visit? It sounds like there is too much incompatibility and when kids resent partners that adds to the stress. How soon into dating did you move in together? All you can do is come to terms with things and try to restore harmony and affection...or perhaps this just isn't working and it's time to move yourself and your kids out. I am in a relationship with my current partner for about two years now. We rarely interact sexually. He gets on my nerves and I do the same to him.Neither one of us particularly like the other ones kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeino Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 Hi all. I have a dilemma in my home life. Some advice would be greatly appreciated. I am in a relationship with my current partner for about two years now and things have been going down hill fast for both of us. We rarely interact sexually and or share P.D.A. in private or public for that matter. I have been watching our relationship dwindle to almost nothing. He gets on my nerves and I do the same to him. It's sad because we once had something kind and genuinely beautiful and now we are strangers once again. I feel like a dog begging for his attention. One thing that strains the relationship is his children and my own children. Neither one of us particularly like the other ones kids. It's obvious no dancing around the subject. I view his grown children as nagging and I tolerate them and the talk all kind of garbage about me. Not that I care anyway. I can tell he feels the same way about my kids too. The future looks dull and gloomy I'm not sure what to do? What would you advice your children to do if they were in the same situation as you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 I wouldn't waste another minute getting this Bozo away from myself, and my children. Raise your standards... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I would ask partner if he's interested in working with me to make our relationship better. Then I'd listen. His response would tell me whether I want to be in or out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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