Rebound?

[Lonelymillie]

Hello,

Two fridays ago my fiancé left me after a fight and heavy drinking. Our relationship is very up and down. He met a girl that night, a bartender, and spent the whole weekend w her and the weekend after that and now this weekend.

Sometimes during the week.

We own a home together so we were trying to co exist but that didn't work out. I'm staying at my parent for now to start to heal. My heart hurts. I wonder if he will start missing me enough to give out relationship another go. What do you think? Is she a rebound?

[Edmund Exley]

Doesnt matter what it is. You need to take it for what its worth. He is moving on to other people.

[limichelle]

I agree, he left to be with someone else now it's your turn to move on.

 

Lisa

[Hollyj]

If your relationship is up and down, then why are you getting married??????

 

Damn! Your fiance hooked up with a woman the night you split, and you want him back??? Really!!!!! Girl, where'a your self esteem!!!!!

[Lisii]

Could you or do you honestly think you could get back with him after knowing that he "hooked" up with a bartender for a weeekend.

 

It would make you insecure (if you aren't already) and it would constantly be in your mind.

 

Move on Millie, you deserve so much better than that.

 

x

[Wiseman2]

How long have you been dating/living together? It sounds like he likes his freedom to pursue other women and is not ready for and avoiding commitment. How old is he? Did you buy the house together?

 

It sounds like he's known this bartender for a while and decided to stage a fight to break up so he can pursue her for a while. Have you spoken since the argument?

Two fridays ago my fiancé left me after a fight and heavy drinking. He met a girl that night, a bartender, and spent the whole weekend w her and the weekend after that and now this weekend Sometimes during the week. I'm staying at my parent.

[SooSad33]

I agree with the others.... THIS is what he's done after a downfall with you... is this his solution every time?

 

Rebound or not.. you dont need this!

[zeino]

I don't know if she is a rebound. You run the risk of being a codependent fallback if you build your life on his actions and whether he will return or not.

[caroline9999]

Men need rebounds after breakups that's how they deal with it. But hooking up every weekend is a bit too much. He seems to be a PRO. Even if she is a rebound and u get back together he may always fall back to the rebound strategy even during ur marriage in conflict situations

[Lisii]

Men need rebounds after breakups that's how they deal with it. But hooking up every weekend is a bit too much. He seems to be a PRO. Even if she is a rebound and u get back together he may always fall back to the rebound strategy even during ur marriage in conflict situations

 

Not all men. 😆