Breaking up

[MurlesaPollard]

I guys I'm 18 years of age. My ex is 28. I know crazy right? Hes like the only person who has ever made me felt like a woman. He would cook for me do my toes comb my hair dye my hair he even went to the extent to eat me out which most men of today find nasty. He even engaged me. When he wasn't working I went out of my way for him. I worked for a very small income and made sure he got everything he needed I was left with out anything but I didn't care because he was all that mattered to me. some days the hemin on my clothes would loose I would take staples from work and staple it back into place. When my shoes also gets loose I staple that too. Some days I literally went hungry just for him. I was so in love.i wanted to show him that I would love him through our thick and thin. Tragedy struck when he started to work and earn his own money. He would see each other everyday when things weren't good with him. When he started working he was always busy never had time for me. He started making so much money and didn't even give me GUY$1000. I never wanted his money but I wasn't expecting such an attribute. He took me out one time to an ice cream place and that was it. Got a test done it said I was pregnant at first he was happy then all of a sudden he didn't want it. (Feeling to cry😭 long story cut short he treated me really bad. We stopped talking I found out he had sex with another woman. He admitted and said it meant nothing that he just wanted to fill the void in his heart and that she isn't me. The engagement ring he had give to me he gave the girl he had sex with. They're not together anymore now since she was just a toy to him.And he wants to be back with me. During the time if our breaking up I came holey and solely over to god and his word says be not unequally yoked with unbelievers I couldn't accept his offer because he believes in African spirituality. That's with evil stuff. He wanted to cry so bad because all this while I was praying for him to come back to me. I fasted for a month and i asked god to show me who my husband is because I'm tired of being hurt. I herd my husband's first and last name then I clearly saw a vision of this little bit wearing school close when he turned around I knew the boy we went to school together I was so excited. He lives in the US I live in Guyana but after a while continued missing my ex thinking about all the struggles I went through for him. The love making we shared was off the hook I was so addicted to him when we were together and he was addicted to me. Now I paces by his work place to say hi because I try not to hold unforgiven in my heart. And his friend told how he's engaged he even posted in on Facebook I msged him to say congratulations and he blocked me. My heart felt like it was pulled from my chest. Now I feel like I'm going insane. It's like even tho I can't be with him I don't want him to be with anyone else. Please help me guys I don't know what to do.

[Wiseman2]

Who is it you want? The guy who did your hair and you got pregnant with or the guy in the US? It sounds like your ex moved on. Who is the guy in the US? Have you ever met him?

He would cook for me do my toes comb my hair dye my hair. Tragedy struck when he started to work and earn his own money. Got a test done it said I was pregnant at first he was happy then all of a sudden he didn't want it. He lives in the US I live in Guyana but after a while continued missing my ex thinking about all the struggles I went through for him.

[MurlesaPollard]

It so happened was not pregnant a second pregnancy test was done and I am not pregnant. The guy in the us who god revealed to me that he's my husband we went to the same primary school we never really spoke much. I know that God has spoken to me but I can't stop remembering stuff about my ex. I know that God never lie to his ppl cause his word always come through. But darren (the American guy) isn't here . I know if we start talking I would forget about my ex. I asked god to speed up the process and bring darren into my life quickly but I guess god doesn't want us to meet yet. Hes probably still fixing darren into the man he created him to be idk. But I just want to forget about my ex it's not like when I lookbat my ex I'm sexually attracted to him I'm not he looks old now and fat. But it's just the thought of him being with someone else and I keep remembering the good times we had and all I went through for him. That's what's heating me up inside. I was supposed to be his wife. But that's not what god wants

[moodindigo91]

I was so addicted to him when we were together and he was addicted to me

 

This wasn't a good relationship at all. He used you, and you fell for it. You're young and naive, you were perfect prey for this guy. Why else would a 28 year old man be dating an 18 year old? He knew you'd be willing to do anything for him, because that's what young girls do for love. All he had to do was make you feel good and catch you, which he did by doing your toes, dying your hair, etc.

 

Any time you say you became addicted to someone, it's a very bad sign. You were the addict, it seems, and he was the drug. By this, I mean, he wasn't also addicted to you, he was the substance you were addicted to. In other situations, people are addicted to each other, but in those cases the drug is love, not the person.

 

I'm sorry you went through all of this, but you should work on making yourself stronger and more aware so that men like this can't take advantage of you again. Date closer to your age, too.

[Wiseman2]

So pretending to be pregnant was just drama to get a husband? Are you from a culture where you cast spells to find a husband or an arranged marriage? How old are you? Do your parents want to marry you off?

It so happened was not pregnant a second pregnancy test was done and I am not pregnant. The guy in the us who god revealed to me that he's my husband we went to the same primary school

[j.man]

Dude you're 18. You just now became a woman. Of course he's the first to make you "feel" like one. That's like saying Pizza Hut has awesome pizza because it's the first slice you had as a kid.

 

You gotta take a break. Find some friends.