Strawberryrock Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I seriously want to kill the guy in his sleep or something it frustrates me He wants to be friends so you think it'll be a good idea? Link to comment
Batya33 Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 He did you a favor so that you can both find better matches. No I don't think friendship is a good idea given your anger. Link to comment
Hermes Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 Strawberry. You don't listen to one word of advice, good advice, you get on any of your threads. How much clearer does it have to be: "He said he just didn't love me and I needed to get used to it" Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I don't think friends is a good idea. Seeking revenge is also not very favorable. Link to comment
j.man Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 It's nobody's responsibility to accept a partner's insecurities as part of "who they are." ADD or not, you're responsible for your own emotional health. Maybe it's more normal than I think it is, but even coming out of my worst relationships, I've never even had comedic thoughts of killing a partner. How old are you? It might benefit you to go to your school / university and ask about counseling resources. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 It is never good to be friends with someone you want to kill. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I seriously want to kill the guy in his sleep or something it frustrates me He wants to be friends so you think it'll be a good idea? Why delete all of your angry killing rant? That said, just read the above and ask yourself if any of that makes any sense at all? WHY would you want to be friends with someone you "want to kill in his sleep"? Seriously? Link to comment
j.man Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 It is never good to be friends with someone you want to kill.I don't think I've ever seen Victoria post dry humor before. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I don't think I've ever seen Victoria post dry humor before. Oo oh absolutely I have. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 hold on you tried to knock a strip off another poster Personally, I'm friends with my ex as in we still hangout all the time and very close. Your insecure and you need to trust him. But don't you dare try to tell him not to be her friend anymore or to block her. That was a relationship he shared way before he met you and you came along. Just trust him and stay out of it Sorry if that's harsh but your being insecure Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I don't think I've ever seen Victoria post dry humor before. oh she's a one is our lady vic j , the saucy minx Link to comment
j.man Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 hold on you tried to knock a strip off another posterThat's some solid investigative journalism, pips. You should see if High Times is hiring. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 That's some solid investigative journalism, pips. You should see if High Times is hiring. I thought so darling heart ..and it might be 11.30 here but I am still sat in my power suit high times ...I just got that ...OH LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL Link to comment
Almira23 Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 Seeing as you did say that you have ADHD, I can only assume that you have a therapist to help you with your diagnosis. I would consider making an appointment and discussing with your therapist about your recent break up. You seem to be harboring a lot of anger and blatantly ignoring the advice everyone else has given you on these forums. I am not sure what particular answering you are looking for, but I think a therapist can help you a lot better than we can. Link to comment
rayfutz Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 Bahahah!!! um, I don't think you will make a very good friend to him. Being honest. Maybe pass this one by and save a life? XD Link to comment
notalady Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 What's the point of being friends with an ex? Especially when you "want to kill him". Link to comment
notalady Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 hold on you tried to knock a strip off another poster Yes I think this ironically demonstrates exactly the point that posters are making in the other post about being "friends" with an ex. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 It is never good to be friends with someone you want to kill. Especially for the friend. Link to comment
Strawberryrock Posted October 31, 2016 Author Share Posted October 31, 2016 I do have more than one ex you know? This is a different guy Link to comment
Strawberryrock Posted October 31, 2016 Author Share Posted October 31, 2016 hold on you tried to knock a strip off another poster I do have more than one ex you know? This is a different guy The guy I'm friends with I dated previously before this one Some exes can be friends, not all I was just trying to tell that poster she needs to trust the guy I guess I sound a tad crazy in this post sorry, I don't want to actually kill him hahaha! I was angry when I posted this and instead of going off on him I did this which is better Link to comment
Strawberryrock Posted October 31, 2016 Author Share Posted October 31, 2016 Yes I think this ironically demonstrates exactly the point that posters are making in the other post about being "friends" with an ex. It can work though! It just depends on the exes. A lot of people think it's weird I'm still friends with my ex (not 'this one apparently that I'm talking about in this forum lol!) but I'm hoping with the ex I'm friends with we can stay like that. I consider him really close to me and we hangout once or twice a month still So I'm hoping when one of us starts seeing another person ,no one we start seeing tries to end our friendship because to me it's real special and I'd be so devastated if some random chick or guy I start talking too comes in the picture and ruins it out of jealousy Link to comment
tracyis300 Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 I not going to call you a crazy person or that you have some kinda "symptoms" that is treated with argent care. But I strongly believe you just want ATTENTION! (Your title says it all) He ended it and now has you feeling "some type of way" and your just going through the stages of being dumped. Confused: your not sure why he ended it? (Although he did say) and you don't know what to do? Denial: you can't believe this person can just stop loving me? Reasoning: you try to talk it out, but he's not having it. Sadness: I don't have to explain this! Loneliness: you either want to be left alone and lash out or start to act in a way for people to be sympathetic towards you. Hate: you can't except the terms and start rambling awful things? Attention: what you're doing now?! He asked to stay as friends, but it's obvious that you can't. So don't? Move on and don't look back! Do something positive to get noticed in a way to be proud of. So stop all the "barking" because theirs nothing there to be threaten of! Good luck! Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 And it's posted in dating......warning for the next one? Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 31, 2016 Share Posted October 31, 2016 I do have more than one ex you know? This is a different guy The guy I'm friends with I dated previously before this one Some exes can be friends, not all I was just trying to tell that poster she needs to trust the guy I guess I sound a tad crazy in this post sorry, I don't want to actually kill him hahaha! I was angry when I posted this and instead of going off on him I did this which is better I will post what you said again Personally, I'm friends with my ex as in we still hangout all the time and very close. Your insecure and you need to trust him. But don't you dare try to tell him not to be her friend anymore or to block her. That was a relationship he shared way before he met you and you came along. Just trust him and stay out of it Sorry if that's harsh but your being insecure I don't care what ex this is , the fact remains that you came on here telling this poster to NOT DARE tell their partner not to be friends with an ex ... and look at the state of you on here , all over what ? an ex !! you have to walk the walk darling , if you went back to that thread you would see everyone disagree with you , why ? because an ex is an ex is an ex is an ex is an ex .... you get it . Link to comment
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