I don't know what he's trying to do?

[nicklepls]

For a while now my boyfriend has not been as caring and sweet it's really strange I asked he said " I just can't see you the same" but he's glad he's with me??? And then I bring up and event we both want to go to together I bought the tickets today I didn't want him to buy and all of a sudden I just get an "awesome completely out of character. After that he showed no emotion towards it like does he actually want to go or not ? Also decided to change everything from us to his friends that hate me and telling me how girls he looking at him smiling and flipping their hair trying to be cute. he knows that annoys me and he just keeps telling me about this girl and then another one and another one. He brought up today how he doesn't feel he looks good but only when he's with his friends...to me that felt like a big you to the face like wow you don't feel you look good around me at all. Maybe I'm being to much but ugh.

[Wiseman2]

This type of thing often lead to the type of miscommunication you are describing about whether you actually asked him to the concert or he just said "awesome' or whatever. Why do you think he is bragging about girls to you?

 

 

He sounds very immature, how old is he?

My boyfriend likes to do drugs he knows I don't like it but I don't mind.Currently he's on strong acid but usually it bothers me but he still is there talking to me and to make it better but no not today he's been ignoring me and drinking on top of that.

[nicklepls]

This type of thing often lead to the type of miscommunication you are describing about whether you actually asked him to the concert or he just said "awesome' or whatever. Why do you think he is bragging about girls to you?

 

 

He sounds very immature, how old is he?

 

I had asked him a while ago all excited showing lots of emotion now absolutely nothing that "awesome ". And I have no clue why he would he knows I haaaaate it.

[ParisPaulette]

I think this is what happens when you try to have a relationship with someone who enjoys killing other people's self-esteem to build their own ego up.

 

I'm sorry, but he's gaslighting the crap out of you, how do you not see that? Look up gaslighting then look up ways a partner who isn't emotionally healthy tries to damage your self-esteem and respect to control you and make sure you don't get a clue and leave them. It's all there, pretty much.

[ken78]

" I just can't see you the same"

 

did something happen before he said that? as someone stated sounds like he may be manipulating you to get a rise out of you or keep you chasing him, guessing. sounds pretty much like an immature teen reading pickup tricks.

[nicklepls]

did something happen before he said that? as someone stated sounds like he may be manipulating you to get a rise out of you or keep you chasing him, guessing. sounds pretty much like an immature teen reading pickup tricks.

 

Yeah something did happen but we resolved our issues and he said he wasn't going to keep thinking about the past, constantly bring it up that we get a clean slate.