Stringing someone along

[Seetheugly2]

I dread many days with my current boyfriend and some days I just can't get enough of him. He is not really clear on the boundaries of our relationship if I am not to have any males as friends then I wonder why he thinks it's fine for him to do so.

Does he think I won't find out? Also he has been showing me his flirty side when in some women's company. He has bound to notice me getting aggravated by his behavior. I cant marry this man because he's waiting to long to come clean and I have seen one to many pictures of him on OK Cupid and Facebook which he claimed not to have anymore. I see the relationship was built on pure lies. Cheated himself out of a good woman now I am saving nothing for him. I am ready to leave this rotten egg and cheesy town. Life blows!!

[Hollyj]

What are you waiting for?

[Wiseman2]

Did he cheat on you? Does he still have an active okc profile? It sounds like generally you are unhappy with him but what do you mean by "some days I just can't get enough of him".

 

Is it a purely sexual relationship but incompatible in other ways?

I dread many days with my current boyfriend and I am ready to leave this rotten egg and cheesy town. I hate him because it makes me look stupid. I deserve better than a piece of crap of a man.

[ParisPaulette]

I am ready to leave this rotten egg and cheesy town. Life blows!!

 

Any time someone runs a whole double standard thing on you and is on dating sites when you're supposedly in a committed, monogamous relationship it's time to leave. Unless you're into being part of the harem.

 

Seriously, just tell him you've lost interest in him, break up, move on. It's done.

[Seetheugly2]

Any time someone runs a whole double standard thing on you and is on dating sites when you're supposedly in a committed, monogamous relationship it's time to leave. Unless you're into being part of the harem.

 

Seriously, just tell him you've lost interest in him, break up, move on. It's done.

 

I haven't really lost interest in him but I see the relationship not developing as it should. He isn't a nice person most days and another thing is he has a thing for older women and I find it very gross. I understand love comes and goes but I feel like he loves others more than me.

[Seetheugly2]

Did he cheat on you? Does he still have an active okc profile? It sounds like generally you are unhappy with him but what do you mean by "some days I just can't get enough of him".

 

Is it a purely sexual relationship but incompatible in other ways?

I am sure he's cheating but I am at the point where I don't care about him and won't allow him to cause me pain. Yes his account is active on OK Cupid and it says he's single. It's not sexual lust. Cause I'm not interested in it since I found out about the profile. I'm are looking toward the future and sad to say I don't see him in it

[IAmFCA]

I don't understand what's in this for you.

 

Don't ruin tomorrow by holding on to yesterday.

[Wiseman2]

Why haven't you broken up with him if he cheats, disgusts you and you see no future? Are you living together or is there some other reason you hang on?

I am sure he's cheating but I am at the point where I don't care about him and won't allow him to cause me pain. I'm are looking toward the future and sad to say I don't see him in it

[rayfutz]

Tell him what you really think about him, stop stringing him along, and stop wasting your time if you are not happy and see no future in the relationship. Even if something changed and you did see a future, you still have to tell him what you think of him honestly, or resentment will build and things still will not develop.