Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 Ive been exclusively dating this woman for almost 6 months now. Shes a bartender and works two jobs almost 7 days a week so needless to say shes very busy.. i on the other hand also work two jobs and also put a lot of my time into my art "career". This has never been an issue for either of us as we tend to usually end our days together when she gets off work. It seems as though shes irritable and stressed by how much she works and lately i feel like im her punching bag. Its pushing me away because the little bit of time we do get to spend time together , id rather spend having a great time and not being jabbed and poked at for the littlest things. I also have my moments of insecurity and jealousy due to her profession. I know im the one she comes home with at the end of the day but i get so ahead of myself and doubtful. We talk throughout the every day either text or call but its not all day and thats not much of a problem actually i like it. But im noticing that she doesnt express how she feels too often anymore and she will text me back hours after i text her. Am i overthinking or is she losing interest? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 Agree she sounds stressed. Is it a once in a while thing or do you also have good times?It seems as though shes irritable and stressed by how much she works and lately i feel like im her punching bag. Its pushing me away because the little bit of time we do get to spend time together, id rather spend having a great time. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 Maybe the everyday thing is a little too much for her. I know for a lot of people, especially those that work as much as you describe, appreciate some time alone to recharge. How about giving each other some space and see if that helps? Link to comment
Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 Its just once in awhile. Im next week will be better. Link to comment
Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 Maybe the everyday thing is a little too much for her. I know for a lot of people, especially those that work as much as you describe, appreciate some time alone to recharge. How about giving each other some space and see if that helps? The thing about that is i understand that completely and have tryed to give her that space but she takes it like im mad or im losing interest Link to comment
Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 Agree she sounds stressed. Is it a once in a while thing or do you also have good times? Its on an off but for the most part we have a great time together Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 jabbed and poked at for the littlest things. what little things? Link to comment
Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 Maybe the everyday thing is a little too much for her. I know for a lot of people, especially those that work as much as you describe, appreciate some time alone to recharge. How about giving each other some space and see if that helps? Shes the one that insists she wants to talk and see me everyday even when i try to give myself my own time as well as her hers Link to comment
Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 what little things? Just small things that dont matter. Like if i forgot a specific detail about something she told me weeks ago that she is retelling again or following up with new info. Also shes recently brought polotics into our relationship which i really dislike. We share very similiar morals and values but i told her i dont know who im voting for yet but probably neither of the two main candidates and now shes telling our friends in what she says is just a joke, that im votin for trump. Also says things like if trump wins she will break up with me and move to mexico.. Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 i'm not sure this has that much to do with her working hours (although 12 hours and more per shift made me a monster...), but she sounds a bit difficult. Link to comment
Yeahyayea88 Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 i'm not sure this has that much to do with her working hours (although 12 hours and more per shift made me a monster...), but she sounds a bit difficult. She can definitely be difficult but so can i. But for how difficult she can be, the moments shes not outweigh by a lot. She does this like once a month where shes not too fun to be around. Also im pretty sure shes on her period at the moment Link to comment
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