ex BF puzzle

[Kalika19]

My ex (Sean) and I broke up in march 2014 approx... we dated for like six months the year before and tried it against for a few months in 2014... I ended it both times by the lack of effort.. (he was a very goal orientated man...ie. work first)...

 

that being said we had kept in touch and hung out quite a lot until I got into a relationship in Feb 2015 ..

I then tried to stop talking to him.. but I ended up cheating on my bf with him.. I did tell my BF at the time

too which obviously ruined things for us.. even though we tried to work on things till recently.

I moved in June to a new town so I lost touch with my last boyfriend (Cody) he contacted me for the first

couple months but I pushed him away not because I wanted to but because it was too hard and

he had hooked up with other women.

 

 

 

-Anyways so like I said I kept in touch with Sean since we broke up.. off and on.. through snap chat

and occasionally text(more so before I moved)...and he came for a vacation for a relatives birthday

and he contacted me and said he would make the journey if he could also spend time with me.

So we made plans and I saw him and we hung out went for appetizers and drinks and yes we hooked up (NOT SEX). ..

he made the first move by kissing me first and during our hang out he made a point of showing me pictures I had sent

him from years prior

(Sexy photos--(he had like 20) and I was like.. you still have those!!!

 

We had a good night but since then I have not heard from him since that was three weeks ago.. it just made me

feel used and like an idiot.. because it meant something to me seeing him it brought back feelings. -- I obviously knew it wasn't

gonna turn into a relationship considering I live out here .. but he was in contact up until then now nothing. I'm left in kind of a

........................... like what do I think.

 

-I can't help but keep thinking and reminiscing about old times I even was looking for an older resume and stumbled upon on old email

and I burst into tears-- it said back in 2014 I asked him why he can't move on--- and he said I cant knowing the possibility we still may

get back together. But that was before I dated someone new.. but why would he make the effort to see me..

I'm just searching for answers and driving myself crazy. I feel like I opened a can of worms and I have enough on my mind.

[Wiseman2]

It sounds like some nostalgia and reminiscing. Are you currently dating anyone? Is he?

I kept in touch with Sean since we broke up.. off and on.. through snap chat. I saw him and we hung out went for appetizers and drinks and yes we hooked up (NOT SEX). .. he made the first move by kissing me

...same guy?...