what dose he want?

[NizyLuck]

hello

 

my boyfriend and i had been together for 4 years and lived together for a year and a half. we broke it off during that year because he found himself interested in someone else. she ended up rejecting him and since he was my first love and i was heart broken i took him back. during our time apart we still lived together because we were renting a townhouse under both our names. during the break up we went to a mutual friend's wedding and he could not take his eyes off me. we eventually hung out for the reception and slow danced together. we ended up getting back together after that and months later moved into our first house. 3 months in just like last time he wants to break up. i tried to make it work again doing what i could to make him happy but it failed. however during that time we were broken up but he still wanted to spend every minute with me, and even made plans to take me to one of my favorite places. but every morning all he ever had to say to me was when i was moving out. and details about the situation. it got to the point where i moved out. we had big arguments at the end too about our dogs (we adopted 2 who were either going to be PTS or get adopted) he wanted to keep one and said i needed to take the other. he would not let it go, no matter how many times i told him the plan to take the dog, he would not let it go. fast forward to when i left...i didn't hear from him for 3 days. he had blocked me on every form of contact. 3 days later he calls and again same stupid stuff about when i am taking the dog and when i am sending money that i still owe. i get angry and call him names because to me it's wrong to just dump a dog like its trash. after that i felt bad and tried to move forward on good terms. he would call me every other day just to say how he was struggling and how bad his life was. he even started smoking cigars and i scolded him for that because that was how his grandma died of cancer. a month later i eventually got a new phone and a different number that i didn't give to him. i wanted to do the 30 day cut off thing. a week later he unblocks me off of FB and says that i need to call him that he lost his phone. i tried to call him out on his bluff since it is attached to him at the hip, he always has it. he got upset and i gave in... now he has my number. fast forward to now, he has me as a friend on facebook but won't talk to me. i've tried to send him things i think he would find funny and he responds coldly with few words. my question is..what is going on? why did he add me and then why is he not trying anything? what in the world does he want. is he just there to keep an eye on me? on a side note i do still crazy love this guy and is there a way to get him back? i care about him more than i probably should.

[CaliSunrise]

Looks like he is just stringing you along until he finds someone else because he's lonely and insacure. It's going to be tough but you should just block him and not talk to him for a long time if ever. If you get back together soon, the same things will keep happening.

[Wiseman2]

He has the right to contact you about getting your dog out of his house and collecting any money you owe him. It's over. Stop contacting him and block him.

every morning all he ever had to say to me was when i was moving out. it got to the point where i moved out.he had blocked me on every form of contact.when i am taking the dog and when i am sending money that i still owe.

[Iggy5129]

Is that what people do now, they just put a dog to sleep because it's an inconvenience?? Wow.

 

I agree he is just contacting to tie up loose ends. Take the dog, FIND IT A HOME, don't kill it and pay him back the money you owe. Then move on.

 

Why would you want to be with a guy that left you for another woman and then came back when she rejected him? Sounds like a jerk.

[NizyLuck]

I was living with him at the time and have only contacted him recently. I agree that he has a right to contact me but it Is also his dog. And it is also a conversation I've gone over with him over and over. He has no reason to continue it. I gave him a date when things would happen.

[NizyLuck]

Ya, i still hate him for that. That was the whole reason we took in both of them. I've been trying to find a place for the dog and if not a place for both of us. Right now he had the dog and is taking care of it.