Does she like me back?

[KevTranh97]

So I've been talking to this girl I met online for about a week now (maybe a little more), and it seemed to be going fine until I asked her out to see a movie. This is what happened:

 

At first, she said she didn't have any plans and asked me why. I asked her if she's down to see a movie the next day. She said she's not sure, because her parents are strict about her hanging out with people they don't know, which I understood. She also didn't drive so she couldn't simply lie to her parents.

Then she asks me if I can bring a friend. I ask why, and she says cause her friend doesn't wanna third wheel. Like a second ago she said she didn't have plans, and now she does?

Anyways, she said she's meeting with her friend at 1-2, and I told her I couldn't make it at that time. She said ok.

 

The next day, I begin the conversation asking her what she's up to. She responds "at the mall hbu". Seem odd? Then I ask her what happened on friday. She replies "Nothing haha".

 

At this point I didn't reply. This was 2 days ago and I haven't texted her back since and she, of course, does not text me first. I get the impression that she's clearly not into me. Also, she never initiates conversations, it's always me. Sometimes the conversations get rolling, but it seems like she doesnt want to meet up with me. We have a lot in common, like photography, and when I brought up the idea of doing collabs she was down for me being her partner. However, I was the one who asked that first. It seems like she never initiates these things. It's always me. She never says good morning to me first. Does she not like me? Should I just end it? At this point it clearly seems like she's not into me and doesn't want to talk to me.

[tracyis300]

Wait! How old is this girl? And how old are you?

You met her online, so don't assume anything yet until you have met in person. I'm sure that she is interested in you and clearly wanted to meet you. But nothing here is exclusive.

Seeing that her parents are strict! The only way for her to go out is to be with a close friend. So she probably begged a friend to help out, but it came with circumstances that you couldn't meet.

Instead of thinking for the worst? Just continue to talk with her and plan something out?

If it becomes difficult to meet? Then move on.

[OldRomantic83]

Keep it going, there sounds like there may be something genuine there, but my main advice to you would be only this... don't allow yourself to be strung along.

[KevTranh97]

I will try and get back to her tonight. Still skeptical though. It's been like 2 days and she hasn't initiated a first text.

Did any of you have this issue? How did you deal with it? Are girls just normally like this? Because what I get from a girl not initiating conversations is that she's not interested.

[SixOClocker]

I will try and get back to her tonight. Still skeptical though. It's been like 2 days and she hasn't initiated a first text.

Did any of you have this issue? How did you deal with it? Are girls just normally like this? Because what I get from a girl not initiating conversations is that she's not interested.

 

Hey Kev!

 

I think you might be on to something when you realized that she doesn't do much to hold up her side of showing interest by initiating conversation.

 

And perhaps she might not be interested that way- which is fine- that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. On the contrary, you give it a shot a few times it seems. You put yourself out there, and that does take guts.

 

But just as confident as you were, you'll have plenty of chances with other girls- perhaps girls that will take you up on really nice offers like going to the movies and such.

 

Good luck!