Homecoming issue

[Arople1887]

My current girlfriend was asked to homecoming before we got together shortly after due to a "pause" in our relationship for lack of better words. With that being said I'm now her boyfriend but she has a homecoming date so the situation is kind of awkward now since we are together and I want to go with her. She was asked by a friend from another school who has been a friend since pre-k so I believe her when she says he's just a friend but she also says she wants to go with me and she'll even cancel on the other guy. However I feel bad if I make her do that and I'm not sure what to do in my situation. Please help!!! Any advice is appreciated.

[moodindigo91]

Find her friend another date?

[gebaird]

If you're not worried about romantic developments, I'd consider letting her go with him. Let them have a nice evening together knowing there will be many future opportunities for you and your GF to have a similar positive experience. Do something fun by yourself or with a guy friend that evening so you won't just be sitting at home worrying.

[Edmund Exley]

Wait, if he goes to another school, is she going to his coming, or did he ask her to yours?

[Wiseman2]

You didn't ask her (because you were on pause) and she rightfully asked another guy to step up so she wouldn't miss out. You Let her go with the other guy, it would be rude to cancel. Find a date for yourself if you even want to go.

My current girlfriend was asked to homecoming before we got together shortly after due to a "pause" in our relationship

 

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[No1]

Its homecoming, its one night, you will survive. You cant come between friends that she has known long before meeting you. Why dont you go to the football game but dont go to the dance. If you go to the dance then youll be too preoccupied about what she is doing. Go out with friends to a movie or something. Prom is a much bigger night, start planning that one