I miss my ex so much and I just want her back

[Smcc97]

Ok it's been 3months since me and my ex broke up , she's moved on and is seeing a new guy but they're in no relationship yet. Once she broke up with me she came back to me twice and said she wanted to get back with me and we did only to be let down by her changing her mind , hat only stopped once she met the other boy. I know she must still have feelings for me if she came back twice and admitted she doesn't know what she wants but weve havnt talked much lately as I was in no state to talk although I did my fair share of begging I gave up eventually and I have reached out recently now after a few weeks and she's been plain and dry , but I'm better now and I'm not as desperate as I was before but it still hurts when she's plain in her responses , I know I could move on and I've been with girls before and after her but NONE make me feel the way she does she's so special to me and I'd do anything to be withheld her again , we were with each other 2 and a half years by the way

[Edmund Exley]

If she still had feelings for you, she would still be with you. Time to stop fooling yourself, let her go and start to move on.

[moodindigo91]

You're still healing and desperate. Give yourself more time, you'll get over it. Everyone feels this way after they have been broken up with. It's temporary. You should also remember that no one will make you "feel the way she does" until you can let her go and allow someone to sweep you off your feet or make you feel special. It's not that she's super special, she's not. It's just that you're still healing and you're still not completely over her. She dumped you three times basically. That's not someone you should want to be with. She also decided only to stop playing around with your feelings when she met another boy... you are not special to her at all in that case. She used you until someone else came along. You should maybe hold off on dating other people until you are over her.

[Wiseman2]

Wow sorry to hear this. Don't be her yo-yo and let her go back and forth between you and this new guy with 'breaks' and 'confused' and whatnot.

 

You need to go no contact and not be demoted to friendzone. Realize what a nasty thing she did and get her off that pedestal.

she came back to me twice and said she wanted to get back with me and we did only to be let down by her changing her mind , hat only stopped once she met the other boy.