Attentive Ex Boyfriend

[Dawn4379]

Hi Guys:

 

So my ex has tried to be overly attentive after the last time I posted...I sent him an email the day I left to travel for work for two weeks that said I wish him good luck but this is to much drama for me and to take good care of himself..I said to many lies and secrets to continue and I hope you figure yourself out...Well since then he has contacted me at least 3 times a day to check in..Saying he wants a relationship with me ..he had tie to think the last few days ,,My problem is now I feel like this attention is because he met someon else but still on the fence? Should I just ask? or should I let it go?

 

Thanks everyone for the feedback

[ParisPaulette]

Block and delete him and move on. It's about neither another woman or him being on the fence, but rather him simply upset over losing control over you and thereby having to face to himself that maybe he's not the oh so clever attractive stud muffin he thought himself to be.

 

It won't change. You come back to him though and he'll be up to put you through more cheating and lying then begging you back to continue to control you. And control isn't love.

 

Don't waste six years of your life on that game like I did. There's just no sanity of normal "reason" there outside of his upset over losing control over you. Block him and keep going forward.

[Confusedabtluv]

Sadly guys always want what they can't have. As soon as you said I will be unavailable for 2 weeks you became that much more appealing. It's now a game and the chase is on. At the end of the day though all that matters is what you want. Who knows maybe while away on this business trip you will meet someone that will help you forget about your ex and his drama!

[Dawn4379]

Sadly guys always want what they can't have. As soon as you said I will be unavailable for 2 weeks you became that much more appealing. It's now a game and the chase is on. At the end of the day though all that matters is what you want. Who knows maybe while away on this business trip you will meet someone that will help you forget about your ex and his drama!

 

 

Yes its all about what I want at this point...I still want to try but only when I see his actions reflects his words...So far so good but no expectations

[Confusedabtluv]

I say continue to do what makes you happy. Life is short yes and we can look back and say I wasted this time with this person but we can also say I had this many good moments with this person. This time away maybe good for you to to give you time to really think and just communicating without seeing him and maybe communicate with other people put feelers out there see if you also have a connection with somebody else there is nothing wrong with that.

[Edmund Exley]

Sadly PEOPLE always want what they can't have. As soon as you said I will be unavailable for 2 weeks you became that much more appealing. It's now a game and the chase is on. At the end of the day though all that matters is what you want. Who knows maybe while away on this business trip you will meet someone that will help you forget about your ex and his drama!

 

There, I fixed that for you

[Wiseman2]

It would have been and still is best to block someone you breakup with for this very reason. Once you breakup he's free to date, have sex with whomever he wants.

 

He may be having one of those 'missed you" dry spells. You can ask but he'll say 'of course not' because the goal of this attention is to have easy sex with the ex.

he has contacted me at least 3 times a day to check in. I feel like this attention is because he met someon else but still on the fence?