Raytaylor Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 So I have been seeing the same guy for some time. I love him very much and he is perfect for me in everyway... Except sexually. I mean he does the job and hes not bad but we have very different preferences. I am extremely submissive and I need a more dominate male. I suppose i have a rougher style and he is quiet gentle, caring, and soft. Which is nice occasionally but I need a little more. Well heres the problem. My boss, a very successful well respected smart man who is nearly twice my age. I am very attracted to his personality and I have a feeling he feels the same about me. Small things that he does and there is a very large amount of sexual tension between us that seems to be mounting. What do I do... Link to comment
Matt3939 Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 If you love who you are with why not work on getting your needs met thru him? Have you told him what you want? Or just kept quiet about it? Usually as a guy. We think woman want nice gentle sex. If you seem to enjoy its all is good. We repeat the process again and again. Now if a woman tells us otherwise then it's a whole different game. He might have no idea. Link to comment
gebaird Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Whatever you do, don't cheat on your current BF. If the sex isn't working for you, talk to him or break up with him. Not sure about the boss, it may not go anywhere due to the age difference. Some guys are more okay with that than others, but depending on the workplace it can create all kinds of problems if you are dating your boss ... or if you date him and break up ... Link to comment
greta96 Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Is your boss married too? That would make the cliche even more of a cliche. I can't tell you what to do, but I will tell you that screwing your boss is probably not going to end well for you, in the long run. Neither is keeping your nice boyfriend around as a safety net and cheating on him. Link to comment
Raytaylor Posted October 2, 2016 Author Share Posted October 2, 2016 I have talked my boyfriend about introducing different things to our sex life and he is completely turned off on the rhings that turn me on. And for your information i dont intend to cheat on my boyfriend i would break up with him first before i let anything happen. The point of writing this forum was to see if anyone had some advice about breaking up with him or ways we can work this out. Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 But you've already said you've asked him about doing other stuff in the bedroom and he's totally put off by it.... that said, maybe he's just unsure and needs a gentle introduction to alternative fun in the bedroom - depending on what you suggested in the first place - maybe he just needs educating Link to comment
Unreasonable Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Don't cheat on your boyfriend, and don't sleep with your boss (that won't go anywhere good, trust me). I think you need some time alone. Link to comment
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