Reddnasa Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 I'll get to the chase. I began working at a charity shop about 2 years ago as a way to give back to the community and because I needed something to do over the holidays and I really enjoy working there but about a year ago a girl joined our crew and I was smitten. That sounds dumb but I was. I felt a connection with her from the moment we met, I trained her on till for god sake what better love story is there. So after about 11 months of Saturdays spent joking around and working i realised I really like her, but then she told me she was leaving due to her mum going into hospital for surgery. So now I've been keeping up with her for a month and I really want to ask her out but I know she has a boyfriend. I didn't set out to split up a couple but I really believe we have something special. We casually flirt toget her and I just don't know if I'm reading the signals wrong or if she genuinely is interested. What do I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seymore Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 Nope - she's taken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reddnasa Posted October 1, 2016 Author Share Posted October 1, 2016 That it you saying I should flat line it. Give up and just drop myself with the 'friends' label? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 Nope - she's taken. ^^^^^^^^^^ seconded .... would you like someone to do this to you if it was your girlfriend . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reddnasa Posted October 1, 2016 Author Share Posted October 1, 2016 Guess you're right. I just think she's not happy with him. The way she talks about him it feels like a toxic relationship. But I get what you are saying I don't want to be the blame and I thank you for your help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seymore Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 Guess you're right. I just think she's not happy with him. The way she talks about him it feels like a toxic relationship. But I get what you are saying I don't want to be the blame and I thank you for your help She's an adult and if that's the case it's her problem to handle. If she leaves him down the line then you can maybe talk to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Guess you're right. I just think she's not happy with him. The way she talks about him it feels like a toxic relationship. But I get what you are saying I don't want to be the blame and I thank you for your help it really makes my day when someone really does care enough to actually see it from anothers view point , it makes you a good person . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlarneyStone Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Boyfriend aside, it took you 11 months to realize you like her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 It's very natural for 2 people of the opposite sex to flirt during work hours. I mean, what else is there to do to pass time? Um ... you can focus on the work you are employed to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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