Jon Snow Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 So I've been talking to this girl over social media for a few months, we met through mutual friends. We became pretty close over the summer and we have a lot in common. We both currently go to the same high school, and the other day I said hi to her and she barely acknowledged me and was very rude. Her friend then whispered something in her ear and they both started laughing. She also ignored my text the day before, so I figured I wouldn't worry about her anymore and look for another girl. But all of a sudden yesterday she sees me walking with my friends, and she screams my name from across the hall and waves at me With a huge smile. I'm really confused right now, and I really don't know what to think. Any advice anyone? Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 Some girls will be girls. I'd ignore her, if I were you. I would say that she's playing with you - to humour her friends. Tough, I know - especially when you say you've been talking over the summer - but now she's back to reality with her friends it seems like she's changed her mind. Sorry X Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 It sounds like she's just friendly. Date other girls rather than wonder what she's up to.But all of a sudden yesterday she sees me walking with my friends, and she screams my name from across the hall and waves at me With a huge smile.... Same girl? ] Link to comment
Jon Snow Posted October 1, 2016 Author Share Posted October 1, 2016 It sounds like she's just friendly. Date other girls rather than wonder what she's up to.... Same girl? ] Yeah it is Link to comment
Jon Snow Posted October 1, 2016 Author Share Posted October 1, 2016 Some girls will be girls. I'd ignore her, if I were you. I would say that she's playing with you - to humour her friends. Tough, I know - especially when you say you've been talking over the summer - but now she's back to reality with her friends it seems like she's changed her mind. Sorry X Well she only acted like that when she was with her friends, who are pretty popular. When she was alone she was really nice. Do you think she's embarrassed to talk to me around them because I'm not "cool" or "popular"? Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 I only said what I said because I have daughters the same age and I KNOW how mean teenaged girls can be... that said, it might be because of what Wiseman said..... who knows? I guess you have three choices... 1. Contact her again and see what happens - it may be good news 2. Contact her again and see what happens - it may be not so good news and she is messing you about. 3. Ignore her totally and see if she gets in touch with you. Without a doubt, teenage girls can be fickle... However, I would also like to say that my daughter would say she's not one of the cool ones (even though she's gorgeous! ) and literally doesn't care what other people think of her and whilst she is INCREDIBLY loyal to the point of distraction, she would rarely see anyone spoken ill of. She has had the same friends since she was 2 and they're all a mish mash of characters - but beautiful people inside and out. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 Teenage girls are fickle and love attention. She's enjoying your attention and nothing more. Ease away from her. Link to comment
James516 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 It's high school - the time of high hormones that completely clouds the brain, learning how to deal with the opposite sex, and low self-confidence that leads a lot of time spent seeking the approval of the audience of friends. So yeah, the rudeness is her not knowing how to handle things, making a big deal in front of your friends is to keep your attention in order to feed her confidence/ego.... and the friends - that would take paragraphs to explain - the short version is that they can be jealous that she has attention so they put you down while she caters to that. Bottom line, back off and don't play the game, it will drive you crazy. (As a sidenote, good job raising your daughter to be her own person, Skelly. I don't remember many people like that in high school.) Link to comment
Sportster2005 Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 So I've been talking to this girl over social media for a few months, we met through mutual friends. We became pretty close over the summer and we have a lot in common. We both currently go to the same high school, and the other day I said hi to her and she barely acknowledged me and was very rude. Her friend then whispered something in her ear and they both started laughing. She also ignored my text the day before, so I figured I wouldn't worry about her anymore and look for another girl. But all of a sudden yesterday she sees me walking with my friends, and she screams my name from across the hall and waves at me With a huge smile. I'm really confused right now, and I really don't know what to think. Any advice anyone? In all my years I've never seen or heard of a case of mixed signals turning out well. She sounds immature, even for high school. Move on. Link to comment
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