Lumanos Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Boyfriend and I went through a VERY rough patch 2 weeks ago. I screwed up big time and he gave me a last chance but became very distant and withdrawn. I'm doing my best and our communication has improved however he has stopped contacting me first. He may be busy or free, ge doesn't talk on his own but when I call he talks normally. I know it'll take time but what do I do? He has also stopped liking my pictures. I feel bad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 How did you "screw up"? Are you on break? have you seen each other or still have sex? Is it just the talking and texting that has died down?. All you can do is lay back and see what happens without you initiating all the contact.. he has stopped contacting me first. He may be busy or free, ge doesn't talk on his own but when I call he talks normally. I know it'll take time but what do I do? He has also stopped liking my pictures. I feel bad...Same guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lumanos Posted September 27, 2016 Author Share Posted September 27, 2016 We see each other, it's good, we do it. Communication is improving but this not contacting first thing is killing me. Also the pic thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Why have sex if the relationship is only partly back together? Stop keeping a pulse on the relationship via phone and social media. If it's not fully back to a relationship then it's just fwb and he doesn't have to act like a bf.We see each other, it's good, we do it. Communication is improving but this not contacting first thing is killing me. Also the pic thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lumanos Posted September 27, 2016 Author Share Posted September 27, 2016 Why have sex if the relationship is only partly back together? Stop keeping a pulse on the relationship via phone and social media. If it's not fully back to a relationship then it's just fwb and he doesn't have to act like a bf. We are together, we are a couple Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cucumber95 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Give him time, if that will happen for next 2 weeks, tell him about that, I don't think he is interested so much anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lumanos Posted September 27, 2016 Author Share Posted September 27, 2016 Give him time, if that will happen for next 2 weeks, tell him about that, I don't think he is interested so much anymore. What do you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cucumber95 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Contact him first for 2 weeks, and see if he starts contacting first after while, if he doesn't, tell him about that, that you don't feel allright with always starting contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lumanos Posted September 27, 2016 Author Share Posted September 27, 2016 Contact him first for 2 weeks, and see if he starts contacting first after while, if he doesn't, tell him about that, that you don't feel allright with always starting contact. I was thinking of telling him that tomorrow. Is that bad or too soon? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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