He wants to be friends

[Evas]

So me and my bf broke up two months ago! After the break up I decided I wanted him back as I thought we had something special to work on!

He says that he needs time and space and wants us to be friends for the foreseeable? But it's driving me insane because I miss him so much! We were going out for 1 1/2 years but stress of uni and work drove a space between us! My parents don't approve nor my brothers and because I live at home this could be difficult!

What should I do? I still want him in my life but I want him as more than a friend? I told him i can't be his friend as there is no chance I would ever get over him then! Would break my heart for him to find someone else! 💔! Ive now started no contact for a week now deleted his number so I can't text hom! Do you think we will ever get back together?

[SkellyWoozle]

Only your BF knows if there will ever be a reunion. You've done the right thing for now..... As hard as it is, you can't "just be friends" with someone you have feelings for so NC is the best option. Busy yourself with finding new things to do, meeting new people and having fun. Good luck X

[SooSad33]

Hard to say..... often more than not, it doesn't work out right the second time around..

 

As for friends? Maybe, someday when all those 'feelings' are gone. It'll hurt in the meanwhile

[Wiseman2]

Excellent you started no contact. Can you try therapy? Obsessing like this over a guy who broke up with you is unhealthy.

 

Do you do it to rebel against your parents? Are they arranging marriage for you?

My parents don't approve nor my brothers and because I live at home this could be difficult!

Ive now started no contact for a week now deleted his number so I can't text.

same guy?