Loosing the girl i really love

[zb60988]

So i met this girl about 4 months ago and i never thought we would be anything. We started talking on snapchat more and more and became closer over the months and after knowing her for about 2 months i wanted to meet her in person. I used to live in Newjersey last year and just moved to Michigan this year and she's in new jersey still so i am now 8 hours away from her. Anyways after becoming sort of close with her i decided i needed to see her so me and my family took a trip down to jersey to see family and i ended up seeing her while i was there. After seeing her we went back to Michigan and i didn't get to see her again. Over time we kept talking and i literally texted her everyday for the past 4 months now and we became so close and we started dating. It lasted about 2 weeks and we broke up because she said how are we gonna date when we cant ever see each other and i made the effort to see her quite a few times i went to jersey and she said she couldn't hangout cause her dad is over protective and doesn't want her hanging with someone that is 17 and she's 14 btw. So we didn't end up seeing each other and we kept talking and it was so hard on me to get over the fact that we couldn't date but i did and we just stayed really close. After breaking up we got together once more but then 4 days later we broke up again cause we had a fight and said it wouldn't work. We still continued to talk but after breaking up the second time i feel that she has lost it for me and doesn't care as much anymore. She started talking to this other guy and i found out about it but she would just say that they don't even talk much but they do cause I'm not stupid and i found out. Anyways she denied that she liked him for 2 weeks now and said she only loves me and that she don't like him but then the other night she ended up hanging out with him because they go to same school. She accidentally sent me a picture of there text that she meant to send to her best friend but she sent it to quick and didn't realize she sent it to the wrong person. In the text it said i had a nice time seeing u tonight etc and sorry we didn't get a picture together we will next time etc... anyways i started a huge fight cause she straight out lied to me the whole time and she admitted it to me and said I'm so sorry that love u so much and i didn't want u to know i like him a little and that i lied to u so i didn't lose u. Im literally in tears cause i loved this girl so much and i would do anything for her. I became so close to her and now i just feel like my life is over i don't know what to do anymore. I was so good to her i cant even explain but now they talk and are gonna see each other in the future so i lost her even tho she says she still loves me and cares. I really don't know what to do and just need help because i never actually loved a girl but this one i love. Theres so much more to the story we were so close but i cant put it all in here because it would be too much to read anyways please help

[ThatwasThen]

Time to just stop talking to her so that you'll get over the habit of texting to her and then get out there and make new friends in Michigan and stat pursuing girls that live close enough for the two of you to nurture the relationship. 14 Is too young for you as well. Even her Dad said she can't go out with guys who ae that much older then her.

 

You can do better then a long distance child/woman that is too young to date you and who lives 8 hours away. That's 7-1/2 hours too far. You'll be okay.

[lostlove76]

Isn't 14 waaaaaay too young for a 17-year-old? I don't know the laws, but isn't that statutory rape in some states? I'm sure you mean no harm. But she's not even old enough to be dating. She's a child. You'd be much better off with someone your own age, and someone who lives closer.

[Wiseman2]

You need to date local girls your own age. Her dad is right. She may look grown up to you, but she's still a kid playing with dolls and watching disney.

we cant ever see each other and i made the effort to see her quite a few times i went to jersey and she said she couldn't hangout cause her dad is over protective and doesn't want her hanging with someone that is 17 and she's 14

[SkellyWoozle]

Agree with Lost and Wise... sorry. She is waaaay too young for you. Find someone your own age.