Almost 3 months since being dumped

[sherrelle]

It's been almost 3 months since I was abruptly dumped. I went through the worst depression I've ever been through. I lost weight because I wouldn't eat and I'm already not big. I literally felt like death would've been easier, BUT it really does get better.

I still think about him everyday, but I no longer have the urge to contact him. We've been NC for 8 weeks. I found a hobby that I fell in love with and that helped me a lot.

I'm just writing this to say that IT DOES GET BETTER. No matter how much you think it won't it does. It's not that you get over it right away. You just learn to accept the situation for what it is. Don't get stuck in all the good memories you guys had, because they're not that person to you anymore. Delete the pictures, I had to because when I saw them I would breakdown for the rest of the day.

And find a friend, that you can talk to openly about your feelings. Guys too, I say this because guys don't like to share their feelings.

But continue to be strong and you'll get through this and find a long that'll be better than all the previous ones. Most of all learn how to be whole again without anyone else.

 

 

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[Almira23]

It's been 3 months since my break up, almost 4.

I felt pretty devastated about the break up in the beginning, but I am so much happier now.

Glad you're in a better place too!

 

[lostinlove2]

It's been almost 3 months since I was abruptly dumped. I went through the worst depression I've ever been through. I lost weight because I wouldn't eat and I'm already not big. I literally felt like death would've been easier, BUT it really does get better.

I still think about him everyday, but I no longer have the urge to contact him. We've been NC for 8 weeks. I found a hobby that I fell in love with and that helped me a lot.

I'm just writing this to say that IT DOES GET BETTER. No matter how much you think it won't it does. It's not that you get over it right away. You just learn to accept the situation for what it is. Don't get stuck in all the good memories you guys had, because they're not that person to you anymore. Delete the pictures, I had to because when I saw them I would breakdown for the rest of the day.

And find a friend, that you can talk to openly about your feelings. Guys too, I say this because guys don't like to share their feelings.

But continue to be strong and you'll get through this and find a long that'll be better than all the previous ones. Most of all learn how to be whole again without anyone else.

 

 

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thank u for this

[jackiedavis]

I was also dumped 3 months ago and I too am feeling a whole lot better. In the beginning I was devasted, blaming myself for everything. Could not stop thinking about the woulda shoulda coulda's, but now I don't anymore. And you are right, you don't stop thinking about the person, you just learn to accept that is is over and that you do deserve someone better. I guess 3 months is the magic point

[sherrelle]

Yes, I'm much happier as well! I never thought I would accept that we didn't have a future together, but now I have and I'm so much better. Everyone else just keep fighting through the pain! It gets better, I promise. But you have to let yourself heal. Stop trying to contact them, stop stalking them, let it go you'll be glad you did.

[Suncomesout]

Thank you for your support!!

[nihongo]

Glad you're feeling better!