TWN Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 Ok, so I went to the club this weekend and long story short me and this girl hit it off. It got pretty intense, lots of kissing involved, and there was definitely sexual attraction. In fact, the only thing that stopped me from taking her back to my place was her friend. We tried to sneak off and find a taxi on our own but her friend chased her down and told her that she couldn't let me take her home, even though the girl I was with wanted to. I was ok with that since I had a good night regardless. Thus, we went our separate ways and I texted her when I got home mentioning that we should hang out again since we got cut off short, she replied "we should definitely hang out sometime". I kept it real short and decided to text her the next day at night when I got off work. I asked her how she was feeling since there was alcohol involved with our outing and tried to generate a conversation from there. However she never replied, I also added her on snapchat but she didn't add me back on it either. Its been about a day now and I'm debating on whether or not I should contact her again. I'm thinking of giving her a call and if I get nothing then I simply move on. Anyways this isn't a huge issue, but after feeling great from a bad break up I'm starting to have lots of fun again. I'm curious what all you awesome people out there would do. Let me know what you guys think I'd be happy to hear from everyone! Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 The ball is in her court. You've messaged her, she didn't reply. You added her on SnapChat (whatever that is!) and she didn't respond. To me it's pretty clear that maybe you were just a nightclub fling where copious amounts of alcohol was involved. Accept it for what it was and if she gets in touch, then so be it. But don't text her again - you'll come across as needy and annoying. Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 You should have worked harder ditching her friend.. Link to comment
dirkdaring Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 Call her, and ask her out. Worst she can say is no, and you move on and continue having fun. Link to comment
James516 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 She drank too much, could be embarrassed at her drinking behavior, and also may have the idea that you are out for an easy roll as a result. Try messaging her again, but include something nonsexual about the conversation that she said that shows you are contacting her more for than just a fling. You seem to like her, so it's worth trying one more time for a response. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 I would ask her out on a specific date rather than texting, snapping, etc. so she knows you are interested. Good Luck Its been about a day now and I'm debating on whether or not I should contact her again. I'm thinking of giving her a call and if I get nothing then I simply move on. Link to comment
TWN Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 ya that sounds like pretty much what I was thinking. Also snapchat is an app that allows you to send pictures to each other but the pictures disappear within a few seconds of viewing them. It's pretty popular these days, and can serve as a fun way of flirting or remembering what the person looks like if you forgot haha! Thanks for your advice though it was greatly appreciated! Link to comment
TWN Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 Hi I posted a reply to you in the comments section by accident, it should be around the bottom with the reference to snapchat. Thanks again for your advice! Link to comment
TWN Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 Call her, and ask her out. Worst she can say is no, and you move on and continue having fun. True there's nothing to lose Link to comment
TWN Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 She drank too much, could be embarrassed at her drinking behavior, and also may have the idea that you are out for an easy roll as a result. Try messaging her again, but include something nonsexual about the conversation that she said that shows you are contacting her more for than just a fling. You seem to like her, so it's worth trying one more time for a response. I guess I'm eager to get back in the game but ya there's no harm in what you say at all thanks! Link to comment
TWN Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 I would ask her out on a specific date rather than texting, snapping, etc. so she knows you are interested. Good Luck Wiseman! There when I was down and there when I'm feeling good. Kudos to you my friend thanks again for your advice! You've been great! Link to comment
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