Gay Friends

[Chocolate25]

I know it's been awhile since I've posted on ENA. How's everyone doing? Anyways, I wanted to vent about the fact that I miss having gay guy friends. I honestly felt like I could be myself around them. I liked the fact that they can be like brother figures to straight girls. I'm not trying to be mean to straight guys. To be honest, it feels like a safety net to have a gay guy friend. It's such a plus that I don't have to worry about them hiding on me. I'm 25 years old going on 26 this year. I was wondering is it too late for me to make a gay guy friend?

[SkellyWoozle]

Why don't you have gay friends anymore? What's stopping you from making more gay friends?! Though I'm not quite getting the need to have a gay friend. Have friends. Have friends to happen to be gay. But to go out actively looking for gay men to be friends with because it makes you feel better? Hmmm, not sure about that. Even though I'm straight, I would rather someone be friends with me because they like me rather than because I'm straight and I'm no threat. Howabout focussing on making friends with people who respect you for who you are and aren't shallow and narrow minded and prone to dropping you or ignoring you? Just a thought X

[willdation]

Its never too late to make new friends! I am a guy and I used to have a few friends that were gay and even a roommate, but they ALL ended up hitting on me and that really grossed me out!! Last time was too much...I was using the shower and he opnened te door and just stood there and stared at me so I yelled and told him to close the @#@$# door.... So now no gay friends for me....and instead now all my friends are girls here where I moved to in Europe...go figure! I also totally agree with above post that you should just focus on people who respect you...

 

For example, sure some of my girlfriends are what people consider pretty attractive, but I respect them and just want whats best for them and not to just have one night stand or use them or pretend to be a "friend" but hoping for something more...but I think this is just exception to rule for many regular guys....but...if you have a group of girlfriends and a guy is pretty good friends with em, there is a good chance he is just not there trying to hook up....

[Wiseman2]

Why not have all types of friends?

I liked the fact that they can be like brother figures to straight girls. I'm not trying to be mean to straight guys.

Same situation?

 

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