No contact

[Marie83]

How do you all have the strength to not contact an ex? I have the hardest time. It's like memories are triggered, or I miss him and love him, or I have unrealistic faith that he will come back or it will work out. How do you stay strong in your weakest moments? I try to be strong but sometimes I break down and I know I should not all all. I need strength and more self respect.

[sundayrain]

hi Marie, i am having a hard time with NC too. so does my EX, which is pretty surprising because he has such strong will power. we are currently agreeing with LC and tbh it isnt really working out well because i am still holding on to some hope that things will change. this is unhealthy yes, but i have come to acknowledge that my will power isnt very strong now.. and i will just try to take things as they are. and when i am ready (hopefully soon), i will go NC and learn to let go. he is my first love, we have been tgt for almost 6 years, and the BU is still coming as a shock to me, its terrible. i get panic attacks in my sleep still. it has been 2 weeks into the BU now. i hope we find the strength to let go of something which isnt meant for us.

[Zippy2000]

hi Marie, i am having a hard time with NC too. so does my EX, which is pretty surprising because he has such strong will power. we are currently agreeing with LC and tbh it isnt really working out well because i am still holding on to some hope that things will change. this is unhealthy yes, but i have come to acknowledge that my will power isnt very strong now.. and i will just try to take things as they are. and when i am ready (hopefully soon), i will go NC and learn to let go. he is my first love, we have been tgt for almost 6 years, and the BU is still coming as a shock to me, its terrible. i get panic attacks in my sleep still. it has been 2 weeks into the BU now. i hope we find the strength to let go of something which isnt meant for us.

 

 

Sorry to hear about your situation. However not everyone knows all the abbreviations in your post. What is LC, and BU??

[sundayrain]

hey zippy LC - limited contact and BU - breakup