Dont know if ive lost her

[Sjok23]

I met this girl in grade 10 in high school and became friends with her quickly. I still hadnt really grown at that point so even though i thought she was the most attractive girl I've ever she still saw me in a very innocent light.

 

Progressively we became flirtier and had some deep conversations too. By the end of grade 11 I was sure she had the same feelings for me. She'd always say she wanted to come over to my place and watch a movie and sometimes we'd walk home together. It was one of those things where we felt the same way about one another but neither one of us made a move. This school year it was pretty clear that she saw me at the very least more than a friend. We talked a lot during the school year and shed call herself my wife or gf and my shy self did my best to flirt with her.

 

This past June, we graduated and went to prom together. We ended up talking for 5 hours at prom and she said "your the only guy I'd ever go with" and she said that she wanted me to visit her at her university(we're going to universities 30 minutes apart). Over the summer she went to Europe and i texted her a bit. Sometimes shed respond right away, other times within two weeks and then say it was just cuz she wanted to write a good response. I understood because she was on vacation so, whatever right? When she got back from Europe we planned to hang out the day before we left for uni but i had to cancel so she said i could come to her homecoming. I said id want to go and the conversation ended. Anyway, the day we moved in to uni me and my best friend/roomate had a few drinks and i started talking about her and i texted her at 2am saying "hey i was just thinking of you, how was the move in?". She hasnt even opened the text for a week even though i know shes been on her phone because of her snapchat stories. To make things worse i accidentaly sent her a txt meant for my friend and apologized which she still hasnt opened. Do I text her and see whats up? Do I wait? Or should i just move on? I cant stop thinking about her and i dont get how her feelings could change so fast. Moving away from home was already nerve racking enough and now i feel like i'll never be able to see somebody i care about and i thought cared about me. Thanks for taking your time to read this and any advice is appreciated.

[nuttybuddy]

dont' text her anymore, you're gonna come off as needy. besides, u said she hasn't even opened the text to read it yet. so she hasn't responded because she hasn't read your text. stop fretting. whatever her reason is for not reading your text, she sounds like she's enjoying her new life as a college student. you on the other hand have not embarked on your journey with enthusiasm because she's the only thing on your mind. stop thinking about her. let her live. if she contacts you, great. if she doesn't contact you, super. you're acting like you're her bf or something. you never even made a move on her. you're not in an exclusive relationship, cuz u were too shy about it. if anything, now's the time to learn to come out of your shell and be more outgoing. meet new people! make new friends! you should post snapchats of how wonderful your life is!

[Sjok23]

dont' text her anymore, you're gonna come off as needy. besides, u said she hasn't even opened the text to read it yet. so she hasn't responded because she hasn't read your text. stop fretting. whatever her reason is for not reading your text, she sounds like she's enjoying her new life as a college student. you on the other hand have not embarked on your journey with enthusiasm because she's the only thing on your mind. stop thinking about her. let her live. if she contacts you, great. if she doesn't contact you, super. you're acting like you're her bf or something. you never even made a move on her. you're not in an exclusive relationship, cuz u were too shy about it. if anything, now's the time to learn to come out of your shell and be more outgoing. meet new people! make new friends! you should post snapchats of how wonderful your life is!

Thanks for the reply. Truth be told I am having lots of fun at college its just when i get back to my boiling hot un-air conditioned dorm and i cant fall asleep my thoughts tend to get stupid lol. But your advice helped a lot, cheers

[SkellyWoozle]

What nuttybuddy said! Life is short so get out there and live it! If she gets in touch, great. If she doesn't, then that, I'm afraid is life. You have a whole world out there - go and have an adventure! X

[Wiseman2]

Message her one last time. But not a butt dial or 2am drunk text or some apology. Just ask how she's doing at uni,etc. If there's no response, feel free to explore all the new girls on campus.

had a few drinks and i started talking about her and i texted her at 2am saying "hey i was just thinking of you, how was the move in?".To make things worse i accidentaly sent her a txt meant for my friend and apologized which she still hasnt opened.