Jon Snow Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Well I'm pretty shallow in the women department and I've recently been talking to this girl, you might've seen my latest post talking about it. We get along pretty well and have a lot in common, but she's very popular and I'm quite the opposite. When I see her in the hallway with her friends I shrivel up and can't even get a word to come out of my mouth. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thanks. Link to comment
musicman777 Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Well I'm pretty shallow in the women department and I've recently been talking to this girl, you might've seen my latest post talking about it. We get along pretty well and have a lot in common, but she's very popular and I'm quite the opposite. When I see her in the hallway with her friends I shrivel up and can't even get a word to come out of my mouth. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thanks. I read some of your others posts. You are already talking to this girl, and some of her friends start following you on the social networks! She's talking about you! Quit screwing around and making up lame excuses. You're interested, make the move! Tell her, ask her to hang out or something, anything. Don't be afraid. Try to get her to spend time with you in person, don't just text and talk on Facebook or whatever. Don't worry about her social status being "popular", either. Don't ever believe someone is unattainable due to some stupid social status/ranking. Don't worry about what other people say/think, either. You like her, go for it. It's THAT simple. If she likes you, she'll let you in, trust me. And she won't care what other people say/think if she does. Link to comment
gp11a Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 I read some of your others posts. You are already talking to this girl, and some of her friends start following you on the social networks! She's talking about you! Quit screwing around and making up lame excuses. You're interested, make the move! Tell her, ask her to hang out or something, anything. Don't be afraid. Try to get her to spend time with you in person, don't just text and talk on Facebook or whatever. Don't worry about her social status being "popular", either. Don't ever believe someone is unattainable due to some stupid social status/ranking. Don't worry about what other people say/think, either. You like her, go for it. It's THAT simple. If she likes you, she'll let you in, trust me. And she won't care what other people say/think if she does. Agreed with this all. I remember your other posts, too... If you're already talking to her, ask her to do something some time, just the two of you. You never grow if you don't make some moves and get out of your comfort zone. You are already ahead of the curve since you guys are talking and you know you have lots in common. Especially agree with the social status thing ... Confidence is key and be yourself. She'll like you for you, not because of any of that junk. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Can you find a place where you can sort of sit near/next to her like at lunch or in class or at a school function and just talk more naturally? Join some clubs, teams, whatever to get some more social interaction going...not only with her but with other girls. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, keep your eyes open for other girls too.We get along pretty well and have a lot in common, but she's very popular and I'm quite the opposite. When I see her in the hallway with her friends I shrivel up and can't even get a word to come out of my mouth. same girl? Link to comment
Jon Snow Posted September 8, 2016 Author Share Posted September 8, 2016 Can you find a place where you can sort of sit near/next to her like at lunch or in class or at a school function and just talk more naturally? Join some clubs, teams, whatever to get some more social interaction going...not only with her but with other girls. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, keep your eyes open for other girls too.same girl? Yeah it's the same girl. I sat near her at lunch but she didn't take note of me, we walked by each other in the hall and each of us said nothing. I'm wondering if she's nervous and wants me to make a move or if she just doesn't really care that much wether I talk to her or not Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Yes you have to make the first move and talk, be friendly, etc.I'm wondering if she's nervous and wants me to make a move Link to comment
Jon Snow Posted September 8, 2016 Author Share Posted September 8, 2016 Yes you have to make the first move and talk, be friendly, etc. Could you give me some advice on when the best time to do it would be? At lunch she's always with a big group of friends Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Making wild assumptions you're at school/college, howabout on the way/from there? Or you could just drop her a note? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Ok yeah, you don't want to walk up to that. When is she in class or around in general? Find a reason to stop her and talk. Ask a question about class or something going on at school to break the ice.At lunch she's always with a big group of friends Link to comment
Jon Snow Posted September 8, 2016 Author Share Posted September 8, 2016 Ok yeah, you don't want to walk up to that. When is she in class or around in general? Find a reason to stop her and talk. Ask a question about class or something going on at school to break the ice. Unfortunately we have no classes together. I just got lucky to have the same lunch period that she has(there are different lunch periods in my school) Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Ok then wait for a moment when people are getting up, sitting down, whatever and then talk to her.Unfortunately we have no classes together. I just got lucky to have the same lunch period that she has(there are different lunch periods in my school) ] Link to comment
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