Was the whole thing a lie??

[Hurt]

You thought he loves you. Until he hurts you. And one day , you realised it is a pack of lies. Actually he never did love you. Doing actions to make you think he loves you, actually you were just a rebound, backup , strung along. Actually it has been a lie all along

[SooSad33]

Been there,, a few times! I understand how you'r feeling!

Being used DOES hurt. It's awful and leave a mark. SOME can be so ignorant & selfish nowadays!

 

It can take a long time to find someone worthy in todays world.. which is very sad!

Even at the Olympics.. was mentioned about how 'Selfish' our World has become

 

Always take it slow! Do not rush things.. really work on trying to get to know them. All takes time..

and as I have mentioned before... LOOKS have nothing to do with it in the end. Eventually the real person will arise.

 

Sadly.. so many are damaged goods. And when you realize this.. move on.. fast! Do NOT get caught up in their destructive, dysfunctional lives!

 

Always think of YOU first.

[sara-pezzini]

i'm sorry but i do not understand the reason behind the countless threads like these you made.....do you get anything out of it at all??

this breakup happened years ago, why keep hanging onto this pain?

what help do you get out of these threads?

it's always a quick statement like this, no background info, no coming back to the threads and no interacting with people responding

[gebaird]

You thought he loves you. Until he hurts you. And one day , you realised it is a pack of lies. Actually he never did love you. Doing actions to make you think he loves you, actually you were just a rebound, backup , strung along. Actually it has been a lie all along

 

Some people don't know what love is. They think they understand it, they go through the motions, but the end result isn't love but something else. Maybe they don't know how to love. Maybe they had all the wrong role models. The best thing you can do when you encounter one of these people, whose love is intentionally or unintentionally untrue, is to separate yourself from them cleanly and completely. Move through the pain, process the negativity, make peace with your past and emerge a new and better person.

 

No one makes it through life without getting their heart broken.

 

Fortunately, hearts can be healed.