peanutbutterandjelly Posted September 2, 2016 Share Posted September 2, 2016 I'm not sure who will recognize me since I havn't posted in years. I just wanted to let everyone know that I finally moved on from my ex and have been dating someone seriously over a year! Talking to my ex a few times after being in NC for over 3 years gave me closure and meeting someone knew made me realize what a jerk my ex was. I met soooooo many guys while dating and it finally happened when I stopped trying to meet new guys for over a year and was out with friends. I have no interest in seeing my ex or being his friend or having anything to do with him. When i think about him, I just think about what a loser he is. I am 10x happier with my new guy than I was with him. I'm not sure if I will continue to post here because I'm a lot more private than I used to be. I really miss the community and support here but I dont know how comfortable I feel with posting too many details on a public forum anymore. I feel like theres so many privacy issues we have to worry about these days. I looked around quickly and see quite a few familiar names which makes me want to reconnect with the community here again and not on the dating boards for once! I have some personal growth to work plus questions on my new relationship but I'm hesitant to post. I just wanted to pop in and give everyone some inspiration. If i can do it, you can do it. My only regret is giving this man 7 years of my life! Thanks ENA. I couldnt have done it without you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Zippy2000 Posted September 2, 2016 Share Posted September 2, 2016 Great news! However it`ll still be good to hear from you. You dot need to post private information here. I d never put names or numbers on here. Keep things generic and not so detailed. Great you moved on and hope things go well with your new fella. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted September 2, 2016 Share Posted September 2, 2016 I remember you Milk, good for you! Best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted September 2, 2016 Author Share Posted September 2, 2016 Thanks!! and congrats on the Mrs. status, Ms Darcy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted September 2, 2016 Author Share Posted September 2, 2016 Great news! However it`ll still be good to hear from you. You dot need to post private information here. I d never put names or numbers on here. Keep things generic and not so detailed. Great you moved on and hope things go well with your new fella. Good luck! ive had some privacy issues lately. And after reading some of my old posts i am kinda embarrassed about some of them and not sure if I want to continue to build on to them. I still have personal issues that I need help with, but i might have to go somewhere where i can start new and not connected to the past so much. I'm considering posting a few general question threads but I need help on specific situations that i don't feel comfortable sharing the details of. This place is interesting! So many new people coming through constantly but also many people who have been here for so many years. I think i might be able to offer some advice based on experience, but I'm not sure how much I will participate yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
devinefaith Posted September 2, 2016 Share Posted September 2, 2016 Good for you great to hear.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted September 3, 2016 Share Posted September 3, 2016 ive had some privacy issues lately. And after reading some of my old posts i am kinda embarrassed about some of them and not sure if I want to continue to build on to them. I still have personal issues that I need help with, but i might have to go somewhere where i can start new and not connected to the past so much. I'm considering posting a few general question threads but I need help on specific situations that i don't feel comfortable sharing the details of. This place is interesting! So many new people coming through constantly but also many people who have been here for so many years. I think i might be able to offer some advice based on experience, but I'm not sure how much I will participate yet. It's definitely up to you and what you feel comfortable doing. Sometimes people do change their usernames, for example, as a simple way to separate a little bit from their past. Also, you can PM specific people you know that might be able to give you advice privately. Just a couple of suggestions. Realistically though, unless someone knows your username and/or knows you post here on ENA, the likelihood of a privacy breech is fairly low. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted September 3, 2016 Author Share Posted September 3, 2016 It's definitely up to you and what you feel comfortable doing. Sometimes people do change their usernames, for example, as a simple way to separate a little bit from their past. Also, you can PM specific people you know that might be able to give you advice privately. Just a couple of suggestions. Realistically though, unless someone knows your username and/or knows you post here on ENA, the likelihood of a privacy breech is fairly low. I will think about it. I never really connected with people though PM on here, but it may be something to consider... thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted September 3, 2016 Share Posted September 3, 2016 Well done, M&H! And yes, I remember you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted September 3, 2016 Author Share Posted September 3, 2016 Well done, M&H! And yes, I remember you. hey HeartGoesOn, is it okay if I pm you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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