Stephenchadd Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 I split up with my ex a few months ago and she let me k ow she was seeing someone else, and as much as it has hurt I do wish her nothing but happiness even though I wish she was with me. However we texted each other a few times yesterday to discuss meeting up with her daughter, and I she said that you never know what the future holds and that we could get back together, but she doesn't know what the future holds. I don't know why she would say something like, as it doesn't serve any purpose. She didn't have to say it, but go knows why she did. Anyone been in a situation where their ex has said something like this, and what the outcome was if there was one? Don't get me wrong I'm not pinning any hopes on this, but I'm just interested to know why someone would say that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 Sorry to hear this...why does she need to string you along this way? Is her daughter attached to you in some way? Does she think saying this will ensure an ongoing freindzoneship?However we texted each other a few times yesterday to discuss meeting up with her daughter, and I she said that you never know what the future holds and that we could get back together, but she doesn't know what the future holds. Same girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt3939 Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 It's a nice way of saying. Hay if the new guy doesn't work out. Maybe she will spend time with you. Till something she thinks is better comes around again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moodindigo91 Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 It's a nice way of saying. Hay if the new guy doesn't work out. Maybe she will spend time with you. Till something she thinks is better comes around again. Exactly. She's just pocketing you for later use. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stephenchadd Posted August 31, 2016 Author Share Posted August 31, 2016 Exactly. She's just pocketing you for later use. Exactly, there was no reason why anyone would say something like that. Yes I agreed to see her daughter on occasions as I was in her life for 7 years and I treated as my own, so I wasn't about to disappear. As for why she said it God only knows. But it isn't the fist time she said this, so it's not as if I could class it as a one off. But I do know one thing, yes I had my issues, which I worked hard to resolve and I have. I said I wanted her back and ensured her it wouldn't be like it was before and if it was she could go. But she decided against that. So now she's seeing someone else it makes it easier for me to move on, because until she did find someone, I was in limbo. I couldn't start seeing someone else as I still felt some allegiance to her if that makes sense? Anyway I'm focuses on getting my life back in terms of moving on. But I just don't know why someone would say what she did, unless like you say she's fooling around with other guys and keeping me in tow just in case it doesn't work. Well she can't have her cake and eat it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stephenchadd Posted August 31, 2016 Author Share Posted August 31, 2016 Yes same girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moodindigo91 Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 I couldn't start seeing someone else as I still felt some allegiance to her if that makes sense? Well she can't have her cake and eat it Exactly. All of those things are right on point. You are right to continue to focus on yourself and move on. She's just playing games, ain't no one got time for that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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