Unsure thoughts a certain relationship?

[xoxflyaway]

I am in a same sex relationship, my girlfriend went to a program that helps her achieve her gr12 diploma. She was assigned a CSO worker. A sort of counsellor. Their friendship didn't mean anything to me because I knew that her worker would be terminating her position to go back to school. But I noticed now that since my girlfriend has ended her courses for now, she seems to be still keeping in touch. I feel uncomfortable with this. Is it weird that, that friendship still exists? Should I be concerned?

[musicguy]

so you feel uncomfortable because she has a female friend?

[xoxflyaway]

I guess so. If you put it that way it sounds bad. But like this person is supposed to be her worker not a friend? Or am I just being stupid right now. Am I allowed to be uncomfortable.

[gebaird]

Is the CSO worker gay?

 

It can be hard to discern between appropriate contact that triggers insecurity and inappropriate contact that is legitimately concerning. Find out which this is for you. Talk through it with your partner in a gentle and loving way. Let her know that you aren't looking to control her, you just need a little reassurance.

[Wiseman2]

Is the worker gay? Why would a therapeutic/supportive relationship disturb you?

She was assigned a CSO worker. A sort of counsellor. my girlfriend has ended her courses for now, she seems to be still keeping in touch.