samyonkers Posted August 25, 2016 Posted August 25, 2016 just had a big fight with my girlfriend of almost 2 years and i said we are done, after fighting for months. she is from south america and all her family and friends are there, and in canada (not near her). When i left, she was in bad shape on the street and I stayed around her but it seemed to just make things even worse so i left, but now i'm genuinely concerned for her well being since there is no one else she can turn to right now. I sent a text to see how she was doing but got no reply. Should I make an effort to contact her even though it may not be the best thing right now? Now i feel terrible because i know she is alone and heartbroken. This leads into my second question as to why this happened, which is that she wanted to move into my apartment and i wasn't ready. She said if she is not moving in then we end our relationship - but it was much more intense than that. Should i have let her move in even though i don't think i'm completely ready for that? She says the living together will help us know if we match and can get along in those circumstances. Should i just have given in and seen what transpired?
gebaird Posted August 25, 2016 Posted August 25, 2016 If you don't feel ready, I would pay attention to that feeling. Potentially great relationships can be ruined by moving too fast. Was she possibly pushing the issue because of financial issues? Are there problems in the relationship that make you hesitate to live together? I'm sorry you are worried about her and hope she is okay. If she's willing, I think it would be good to sit down and have a long and honest talk with her.
Wiseman2 Posted August 25, 2016 Posted August 25, 2016 It sounds like you don't get along and don't really care about her. You left her on the street in bad shape? How so? Was she drunk? Beaten up? Is she looking for a sponsor/place to live? Does she work/have a place to live?When i left, she was in bad shape on the street. I sent a text to see how she was doing but got no reply. Should I make an effort to contact her even though it may not be the best thing right now? she wanted to move into my apartment and i wasn't ready. She said if she is not moving in then we end our relationshipSame girl?
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