My girlfriend left for college

[Kswiss67]

My girlfriend just left for college a couple of day ago and I am starting to feel really uneasy about what might happen while I'm not with her. I'm afraid that the distance between us with make us drift apart and break us up. She is also bisexual, so everyone is a possible threat. I'm afraid that someone will see her the same way I do. I'm afraid she'll find someone she loves more than me. I'm afraid someone will see how amazing she really is. I'm afraid that someone will reach out to her when she is lonely and make her do something she never wanted to do. I know I can't stop her from doing what she wants, but I can't help but be scared. I've never given her a reason to cheat on me, and she hasn't given me one either. The distance is killing me and I can't even go see her right now because of work. College is the place that you are supposed to find yourself, what if she finds that she doesn't love me anymore?

[Wiseman2]

Ok, hold on loosely stay in touch etc, but give her lots of space and trust. The only thing that will blow it is if you get insecure or clingy and she feels suffocated. Breathe relax and just stay in touch with her.

I'm afraid that the distance between us with make us drift apart and break us up. She is also bisexual, so everyone is a possible threat. I'm afraid that someone will see her the same way I do.

[Kswiss67]

That might help, but she's been forced into things she didn't want to do before. She's kind of a pushover, admittedly

[Doc Blaze]

That might help, but she's been forced into things she didn't want to do before. She's kind of a pushover, admittedly

 

 

at the end of the day, those are her choices unless someone is physically or holding a gun to her head..

 

 

 

How were things left off before she left...

 

 

 

my gf is at grad school. gotta keep positive, keep busy, let her settle in for the first couple of weeks,

everything is new for her so everything will most likely be exciting.

 

 

keep in touch but don't overwhelm her.

[Wiseman2]

She's a grown up, you can't keep her on a tether. If you become overprotective due to insecurities it will push her in another direction.

That might help, but she's been forced into things she didn't want to do before. She's kind of a pushover, admittedly

[MrBean]

just tell her whatever you wrote in your original post. tell her how much concerned you are.

[zaahid]

you should give her some space but keep in touch talk meet on r&r and but give her freedom if she is still dating you she will pros break up with you first

[Kswiss67]

Doc Blaze,

Things were great before she had to leave. There were a lot of tears shed on the day she left. I really do love her and she loves me, I know that for a fact. I'm not as worried about what she will do, more so what other people might convince her to do.

[Wiseman2]

What's the difference? She's still choosing to do them.

I'm not as worried about what she will do, more so what other people might convince her to do.