Does he still have feelings for me?

[kokopuffz]

Me and my ex boyfriends dated for 8 months doing LDR, we were together for a month. We were eachother's first and love but we had lots of arguments and miscommunications and trust issues. The relationship wasn't healthy at all. We were on and off couples times and finally broke up 3 weeks ago. He started flirting with other woman and asked out someone he liked, I was heart broken and realized he planned it ahead of time in case we didn't work out. I didn't want to be friends with him at all cause I still loved him and he keeps insisting we be friends.

 

Yesterday he messaged me

 

"If you want to be with me you need to tell me

Just say yes or no

Please don't have sex with anyone.."

 

 

Like I said he was my first and I was his first and that's all, it is not like I have been sleeping with someone. Why did he say that? He told me he never wants to be together at all and that we will never work out at all yet he won't let me move on.

[Hollyj]

Why haven't you blocked this creep? He's not your friend, either.

 

Clearly you are not compatible and he was cheating on you, so why would want to have any communication?

 

Doesn't matter if he was your first, as you said, IT WAS UNHEALTHY! Move on.

[kokopuffz]

Why haven't you blocked this creep? He's not your friend, either.

 

Clearly you are not compatible and he was cheating on you, so why would want to have any communication?

 

Doesn't matter if he was your first, as you said, IT WAS UNHEALTHY! Move on.

 

 

We are not even friends on anything. I should have a reason to block him, I told him many times we won't be friends and will never and I told him to leave me alone as well. He listens then all of sudden when he decides to miss me, he messes with me. I will now. I moved on, I will never get back with him at all either and I've been seeing someone so no reason to go back to unhealthy relationship. I don't want that anymore. I don't want any communication but he always seems to find a way to message me even after blocking him.

[Hollyj]

Why don't you change your number?

[TheAnthony]

Just sit down and think about every detail. You sound like you deserve better than to constantly be dealing with hurt.

My advice is to just move on! Go talk to people, have fun! I tell that to all my friends who have similar problems, some of them found out that online chatting is helping them. One of them got addicted to that Party line. Just talk talk and who knows, maybe you meet some interesting guy.