Getting Ex to sell my jewelry in stores she works at

[PumpkinHead]

I guess this is kind of an evil plan. But I can do this. I am a high end jewelry designer and manufacturer. My Ex works is a jewelry store. Im going to get my jewelry into that store. Nothing else will be said to her during this time. I give myself a year to do this. I don't need to get back together. But satisfaction will be had by her seeing that she has to sell for me.

[IAmFCA]

Hahahahahahaha I totally get this. Do it. She will claim you in her sales pitch. I know him and his work, he's so good, etc.

love it.

[mustlovedogs]

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I hope you're joking.

 

If I worked in a store and my ex's products happened to come in, I would think "huh. What an interesting coincidence."

 

And then I would do my job and go on with my life and probably never think about it every again, ever.

[mustlovedogs]

My Ex contacted me a few weeks ago. I hadn't spoken to her in 7 years, except for a couple brief conversations that she initiated.

 

 

 

Oh my gosh especially because it's been 7 years

[IAmFCA]

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I hope you're joking.

 

If I worked in a store and my ex's products happened to come in, I would think "huh. What an interesting coincidence."

 

And then I would do my job and go on with my life and probably never think about it every again, ever.

 

Doesn't matter. He'll know they are in front of her sight.

 

It also keeps them linked - or keeps him linked - to her. Probably not good for him. But by a year from now, maybe he will have healed. Maybe she will sell his pieces especially well. They might make a great team in this way. Lol but true.

[mustlovedogs]

I don't think it's evil as much as childish. But whatever, an 8 year vendetta, enjoy your high end jewelry job being a scorned dude

[thejigsup]

if your stuff is any good, she will appreciate the commission and silently thank you. It is nice when exes help each other. She will most likely take her current bf or husband out to dinner with the money or buy him something nice.

[IAmFCA]

I don't think it's evil as much as childish. But whatever, an 8 year vendetta, enjoy your high end jewelry job being a scorned dude

 

True that. All success flows easily when we look forward and not back.

[PumpkinHead]

I'm a pretty successful designer. I sold in very expensive stores. The real story is that I got into this business to be with her. It didn't quite work to be with her right away. I dedicated a few years to learn the business and I couldn't get it to work out. She contacted me again. It wasn't a good time. But now I can get into the store she works at and make her sell my stuff..lol. However it works out, I'd like her to work for me.

[HeartGoesOn]

This appears to contradict the title of your last thread asking, How to open up communication again? Either way, as long as you allow her to rent space in your head, she wins.

 

No offense, but after all of these years, why not let it go?

[mustlovedogs]

Her selling your designs does not make her work for you.

 

She will still work for that store doing what her boss tells her, which may include selling your designs. But you will be in no way shape or form her boss, her supervisor, or her superior for it.

 

If you ever want a healthy relationship you need to change your mentality (and end this obsession)

[PumpkinHead]

Her selling your designs does not make her work for you.

 

She will still work for that store doing what her boss tells her, which may include selling your designs. But you will be in no way shape or form her boss, her supervisor, or her superior for it.

 

If you ever want a healthy relationship you need to change your mentality (and end this obsession)

 

Yes, of course. I wouldn't even want to be her boss. It's just a little amusing for me.

[mustlovedogs]

My ex gave me my couch.

 

Man, I bet he thinks "she couldn't watch Netflix without me! Everytime she sits, it's because of ME. Go me."

[thejigsup]

Like i said, she will take her current squeeze out on the town with the money and think you are a chump. Nice.

[PumpkinHead]

Like i said, she will take her current squeeze out on the town with the money and think you are a chump. Nice.

 

and so will I

[LadyRayne]

After 7 years really? Why??

[greta96]

You do realize you'd be doing her a favor, right? She would not be working for you, she would just sell it the same way she sells other designers' jewelry with the hope she'd make a profit and enjoy the earnings with whomever is in her life right now. I don't see how that gives you any satisfaction or why, but to each their own I guess.

It is however a little scary that you haven't managed to move on from a breakup that occurred so many years ago. For you to still hold the grudge and seek some sort of "devious" revenge is unsettling, because the best revenge would have been for you to be happy and long moved on, with a family of your own and not give your ex a second thought.

[Wiseman2]

But she works for the retailer, not you and she can steer customers Away from your stuff to other merchandise. So in reality she has it over you, unfortunately..

I'd like her to work for me.

[catfeeder]

If my designs were all that successful, I'd get greater pleasure from selling them with a competitor.

[Unscrewed]

I like this site. The heart motivates people to do funny things. Do it! And do come back and tell us how much money you make!