It is normal that my boyfriend hugged his ex ?

[Andrea12]

I see photos from February where my boyfriend was hugging his ex that still like friends because they dont break up bad. But i get bad and sad because i dont like the kind of person that see that things good. Was 4 photos when theyre hugged in one he put his hand and her face & his face in her head and she close to his chest other photo he was hugged from the back with his arms around her waist. It is normal had that kind of hug or love in friendships?

 

The fact is that we just see us in vacations our relation is in distance different places we dont have big problems most of the times we are cute and love but i am insecure about the photos he told me that they are close friends she gives him advice and support because he have depresion most of the time coz a disease so after that he change humor and get depression so he found all his friends. I told him how i feel so he stop to have physical contact with she. But i have afraid that he cheated me with she in the past. My ex cheated me so im scared that happen again

[ThatwasThen]

You should find a good man where you live and stop believing this guy. How often do you even see him for goodness sakes?

[Wiseman2]

It a long time ago do they have kids together?. Don't let problems from your past ruin your current relationship.

we just see us in vacations our relation is in distance My ex cheated me so im scared that happen again

[moodindigo91]

If he's cheated in the past and posts these photos where they are looking very affectionate, I would be worried. Find a man closer to where you live, someone who respects you and can actually spend time with you. Dump this weirdo and let him be with his ex.

[Andrea12]

No we dont have kids. And yes we live in different places so just can see us in vacations. We dont have big problems is just my afraid he never be mad with me or fight or tell me bad words thats never. We try to keep us happy. Is just what happen in february that photos makes me feel bad and remember my past.

[Andrea12]

He dont post. One of my friend is in love with me so he stalk and found that photos and show me. I talk with him and things start to recover good and stop to physical contact. They was great friends before date and they break up because the both dont see like a couple just like friends. my past scared to me coz i have afraid that him cheat me like my ex

[Wiseman2]

You mention this in every post. So it's really about that not some posted pics. Maybe you are not ready to date anyone until you stop saying this.

my past scared to me coz i have afraid that him cheat me like my ex

[Andrea12]

You have right. Very kind. I wasnt think that but now i am. Thank you

[j.man]

From your grammar I'm assuming you're Spanish or Latin American? I know we can get particularly touchy, but I've never hugged a woman who wasn't family from behind.

 

I think whether or not he's cheating, this stress isn't worth it. Find a local guy.

[SherrySher]

Yes, I agree with j.man....you are always going to be looking over your shoulder and wondering what he's doing. He has already shown you that he will cheat on you and he seems very touchy feely with his ex. It might be better for you to find someone else otherwise you could be keeping yourself in misery and feeling tortured.

[Darknight1314]

From your grammar I'm assuming you're Spanish or Latin American? I know we can get particularly touchy, but I've never hugged a woman who wasn't family from behind.

 

I think whether or not he's cheating, this stress isn't worth it. Find a local guy.

 

yep this from j.man

hugging from behind if not your girl is way disrespectful to your partner