I want to be with him... But is he loosing interest?

[Griddles23]

Ive been dating this guy for about over a month now...we have a lot in common, never argue, he's very sweet. Yes, we had sex about 4 times. And we're together 5-4 times out the week and I always sleep over his place. We have deep conversations, and we connect a lot. He's a very easygoing "chill" guy. Who enjoys walks on beach or movie night together. He trusts me heavily and opens up to me. I'm 19, he's 25 btw. He takes me everywhere and all his friends know and like me. And some of his family members. I like him a lot, he's everything to me.

but he's stopped doing certain things that he was doing when we first met. I usually have to text him first. He always offers to comeover though...We don't kiss as much unless it's hello or goodbye or sex. He doesn't always open the car door or pull chairs for me anymore. He doesn't hold my hand as much. Sometimes He is looking down at his phone for a chunk of time so when he put his phone down once , I looked, and it was a new imessage from a girl "Lilly" 😕.

He doesn't hold me at night or when we wake up in the morning as much as he did. And the second week we knew eachother, was the week we had sex then after that, none. It's been almost 2 weeks that I lay next to him in just my panties, and BOOM. Nothing. Just snores. U could say "he's tired" ig 🙄 Yes, I've voiced to him that I'm a monogamous person and that When I'm talking to one guy I only want to Focus and have sex w, and talk to him only. And I let him know that he is that guy in my life. He says he knows where I come from but can't promise me a stable relationship cause of his job moving him around a lot which ruined his last relationship😔 But he's monogamous like me also. We're together almost 24/7 and he invites me almost everywhere fun that he goes. But I still wanna be with him! He's everything! But what does this all mean? Is he still attracted me? Is he loosing interest? Should I not even bother w trying to be with him. Should I ask him about lilly? Does it even matter/should I be concerned?

[Wiseman2]

Unfortunately you are smothering and suffocating this budding dating relationship to death. Get your own life, he can't babysit you 24/7. It sounds like he's forewarned you it's just casual sex and he will be moving on anyway.

 

He has absolutely no chance to miss you or breathe. Laser focusing on him this much is clingy and a bit creepy.

Ive been dating this guy for about over a month now. we're together 5-4 times out the week and I always sleep over his place. He says he knows where I come from but can't promise me a stable relationship cause of his job moving him around a lot.

[thornz]

The poor guy is probably sick of the sight of you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Spending so much time together is so unhealthy and you sound very infatuated. This will only end in tears if it continues this way.

 

I think you should get some hobbies, re-connect with your friends and family and focus on school/finding a (better) job. If he is genuinely into you he will come back to you when you relax and regain your independence.

[ThatwasThen]

He says he knows where I come from but can't promise me a stable relationship cause of his job moving him around

That line right there tells you everything you need to know. Start exercising some of your other options and stop putting all your eggs in this guys basket.

[surfdiva]

"He's everything!"

 

No, he's not. In order to have a happy/healthy relationship you need to have your own life also.