Here's a plot thickener for you...

[Nebraskagirl14]

This is just tooooo much... Ex contacted me last night after I told her to not do so and that I knew she was seeing someone and that she should just go do that...

 

In contacting me, she basically told me that she is seeing someone (and it's who I thought it might be which oddly made me feel better rather than worse).

 

She said she is confused and enjoys that one's company very much, but she has never been attracted physically or emotionally to anyone like she has to me...

 

Essentially, she is giving me the opportunity to have her back or she will go date this other person and make a a relationship of it. I found that entire conversation so surreal. I think she thought she was making me feel special but what it made me feel is that it's amazing that I am aware that she has multiple options and I am but one and that she will go to the highest bidder.

 

It's odd. I miss her. I love her. But I don't trust her and I feel badly for her new person who clearly adores her and she is telling me how much she adores me... But she will go date that one if we don't pan out...

 

You can't make this sh*t up...

[Silver star]

Hmmm, run for the hills my friend.

[Iggy5129]

Sounds like your head knows what to do. Listen to it and your heart will catch up.

 

You don't want to be someone's option, you want to be their only choice.

[Nebraskagirl14]

I know... You're right. Yes, my heart of course wants this person. My head has always said "don't do it." I know a lot of people here would love their ex to want them... But I have to tell you, it's terribly hard when they do come back but you know it isn't right but you still love them

[Heavy]

She said she is confused and enjoys that one's company very much, but she has never been attracted physically or emotionally to anyone like she has to me...

 

One of my ex's said that exact same line, also saying "I see that person as like a brother". Guess what my ex must like incest as she is now living with him.

 

Block, delete and move on with life. All the ex is going to do is string you along, don't be the fall back person.

[boltnrun]

Lots of people who pull this garbage think the same way she does. She's just actually putting it into words.

 

So, it's like an auction and whoever begs and pleads and says they love her the most wins?

 

Poor slob, whoever she ends up with.

[Nebraskagirl14]

Yeah, I once had an ex do the same and ran to the other girl. I backed off and she ended up not being open to the other girl and they broke up. Not a surprise. I feel bad for the one this one is dating now because she isn't open to her either... I do love her but this is why we never worked. No trust.