max121212 Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I have been together with a girl for atleast 5 months now in total. througout that time we've gone through some crap and i had to man up in order to keep her. i'm 24, shes 29. she has three kids but i don't care i love her. We tell eachother we love eachother, because shes so busy i dont see her much and with my last up shes wanted a bit of space to herself. Shes 100% trustworthy, she would tell me if anything was up. But she calls me hun even when I've told her i like it when she calls me babe. Am i just making a big deal out of nothing? like we talk on the phone and say we lover eachother in person. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Yeah, this is no big deal, why does it bother you? Does she call everyone that like a truckstop waitress?But she calls me hun even when I've told her i like it when she calls me babe. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 hun, honey, babe, darlin', sweetie....what's the problem? They are all just common pet names. Would you prefer "hey a hole!" I jest, but seriously, talk about making an issue out of absolutely nothing. If you are going to pick an issue, pick something worthwhile at least. This ain't it. " Link to comment
Zaphod Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I always like my girlfriends to call me "Zaphod the Galactic Imperial Overlord" especially just before we have sex. But I usually end up with a bog-standard "Hun" just like everyone else. Link to comment
Zaphod Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I have been together with a girl for atleast 5 months now in total. througout that time we've gone through some crap and i had to man up in order to keep her. i'm 24, shes 29. she has three kids but i don't care i love her. We tell eachother we love eachother, because shes so busy i dont see her much and with my last up shes wanted a bit of space to herself. Shes 100% trustworthy, she would tell me if anything was up. But she calls me hun even when I've told her i like it when she calls me babe. Am i just making a big deal out of nothing? like we talk on the phone and say we lover eachother in person. You have to take what you can get mate. Unless your name's "Attila", then Hun isn't too bad. It's a bit trendy and middle management MILF Apple Mac and iPhone call everyone "guys" (even though some of them are women) and use mood boards marketing dept, but it's ok. Link to comment
Emerald Knight Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 You shouldn't ever bad for feeling a certain way. I'd say she is probably just making an honest mistake and if you continue to correct her she will eventually get in the habit of calling you by your preferred name Link to comment
dave_1966 Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Tell her if she calls you 'hun' again, it's over. Link to comment
Heather Dawn Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 This could be the stupidest "problem" I've seen here on eNA. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Yes, I think you are making a big deal out of nothing. Both terms are common terms of endearment. Don't let it ruin a good thing! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I have been together with a girl for at least 5 months now in total. Same girl? I've been seeing and am in monogamous friends with benefits situation. Been with her about 8 months. Link to comment
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