Regarding nc

[Webb0108]

Hi all ive been in nc for 44 days now and i feel like im getting know where..i still feel the same way about my ex like i always have is this normal ?? ..

 

Only thing thats bothering really is that my 5 year old son has asked his mum if she still loves dad and she said yes to him so im confused...

 

Her nan has been diagnosed with dementia i love her nan to bits and have done alot for her do i break nc and ask her how her nan is ...if i dont i dont want her to think i dont care..

 

Thanks

[Hollyj]

Why did the relationship end?

[Webb0108]

Oh she said she didnt love me anymore and lost the spark but never tried to get it back.. Was with her for 15byears and married for 10...she says she cant see a future with me but doesnt want a divorce 😵

[Hollyj]

I'm sorry.

 

Why doesn't she want to divorce? Not fair to keep you in limbo.

[Webb0108]

She said theres no point which i dont understand...i dont want a divorce either just seems strange..

 

Well tbh im not sure what i want..

[Hollyj]

If you have no relationship with her, then it just keeps you stuck. Is she staying in for the financial benefit?

[Webb0108]

I dont really know why she diesnt wantva divorce and No i just pay for my 3 kids every week..

[Hollyj]

I was referring to what she got financially.

[Webb0108]

I left her everything as my kids live in the house..ive got start again..

[Hollyj]

I was just try to understand why she would want to stay married, if the marriage is over. Do what's best for you and the kids.

[Webb0108]

Thats what i dont understand either..i know what i want for my kids and thats to fix it..and me fileing for divorce i shouldnt have to pay for something i dont want