Davinci1 Posted July 30, 2016 Share Posted July 30, 2016 We have been friends for over a year now and we have always got along well, but for the past few months she has been acting different towards me. She texts me every day, sometimes she says how she misses me and how we "need to hangout soon", constasntly tries to be make me laugh and she always talks and snaps me when no one is around. Only problem here is that she has a boyfriend. They have been going out for over two years; although it is clear that she is insatisfied with him. She never mentions him around me but whenever she is with him or with her girlfriends she barely talks to me or mentions them. Although as soon as she is alone she immediately wants my attention. We dont talk about hanging out with just the two of us because she is in a relationship, but sometimes I get the feeling that she does want to see me but she can't because she is taken. This is girl is very cute and I like her, but I dont know if she has felings for me or is just flirting for fun. What do you guys think? Is this normal behaviour for a girl with a boyfriend to do? or she is really sending signals that she might want me as a potential mate? Should I ask her to hangout or do I keep our talking steady until she is single? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 30, 2016 Share Posted July 30, 2016 It sounds like she just wants attention but I would call her bluff and plan a hang out to see if she's just leading you on, since she has a bf. she says how she misses me and how we "need to hangout soon".she has a boyfriend. Link to comment
Snny Posted July 30, 2016 Share Posted July 30, 2016 She texts me every day, sometimes she says how she misses me and how we "need to hangout soon", constasntly tries to be make me laugh and she always talks and snaps me when no one is around. Don't let her groom you into an emotional affair with her. You know better. Find a girl who won't play these games. And definitely call her behavior out. This is girl is very cute and I like her But she has a boyfriend. That means she is hands off. And lets be honest-- you have no interest in being her friend. You want something more that she can't offer. Please find someone who is available. Stop talking to this girl who is being a C&$ tease. Don't let her charm fool you. Is this normal behaviour for a girl with a boyfriend to do? It is the behavior of a cheater or an attention seeker. Both reveal her dishonesty to you and her own boyfriend. Neither are good. Seriously, stay away from this girl. She is trouble. We dont talk about hanging out with just the two of us because she is in a relationship, but sometimes I get the feeling that she does want to see me but she can't because she is taken If she really wanted you, she would dump her boyfriend. But no, she wants her cake and eat it too by flirting with you while in a relationship with another man. You need to tell her to knock it off or not respond to her flirtatious text. Don't play in her game by giving in. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted July 30, 2016 Share Posted July 30, 2016 They have been going out for over two years; although it is clear that she is insatisfied with him. Well that isn't for you to decide or to bother determining. She is off limits to you and since she is in a relationship, you would do well to keep strong boundaries with her and not let her cross them. Flirting with you when she has a boyfriend is poor form and its causing you to think unrationally. Don't let her cross platonic relationship boundaries with you and you won't be confused. Step back and realize that she has a boyfriend so she's off limits. Next time she crosses that platonic line tell her kindly and with a smile that you are sure that her boyfriend wouldn't approve and then change the subject to something more neutral. There is no reason for you to be confused if you keep your own boundaries in place. Link to comment
Chon Posted July 30, 2016 Share Posted July 30, 2016 I agree with Snny. Do you want to get into a relationship with someone who you know is willing to emotional cheat? Link to comment
tracyis300 Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Your just a "backup" in case things don't go well with her BF. Don't waste your youth waiting for something to happen with her. Just stay friends and go forward into dating other people. Don't let her attractiveness cloud your commonsense. Ask about her intentions for you? Does she want to fool around or date you? Because this is all completely selfish. Link to comment
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