Difficult break up

[John smithers]

Hi everyone,

Ive broken up with my relationship of 4 years about 3-4 months ago, I was convinced she was not the one for me back then and the relationship seemed to go nowhere, had a fling with another girl for about a month but she also wasn't what I was looking for. After that me and my ex girlfriend began to see each other again more often, my feelings for her came back but now she won't take me back, we talked about it alot and she said she does still love me but she wants to know if she can have the same relationship we had with someone else (ive been her first and only boyfriend).

I don't know what to do, ive cut all contact for now but I do miss her an wondering if im doing the right thing going no-contact ....

Any help is much appreciated

[Clarisse]

Yes, no contact is the right thing to do, even though it hurts. If she wants to explore other relationships, you really have no choice but to honor her decision.

 

Protect your heart and grieve the relationship. Eventually, you will be ready to move on.

[kamurj]

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