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to give an overview, me and this girl have been talking for bit over a month and things have been great, although comparing her texting quantity to previous girls hers seem short and straight to the point, I've always grown to believe that it was just the way she texted. anyway, we've met up and things all went well, the vibe felt right and we were both interested in each other and there wasn't a moment of awkwardness, just plain fun! however, I've kept coming to the realization that maybe she doesent want more than what she thinks of me, I do like her, it's just, on social media she never 'likes' any of my new photos, but I see her liking photos of a previous guy she spoke with, (who btw she opened up to me and told me that she used to talk with him before me, and said how he stopped talking with her because things didn't work, she also said she knew she didn't want anything with him, they've had sex a couple of times also..) [incase this might play a factor]


my biggggg question is, what do I do from this?! obviously I'd like to be with her, but I don't want to put myself in a situation where I know she'll turn around and just friend zone me bc she has something for someone else. I think the best option for me is to stop talking to her and go any further in hopes to not hurt her or myself? I just don't know how to say it to her.. I mean, if she really liked me also, she would've wanted to show a lot of interest and dedication for me right?.. should I stop talking with her on the spot? or try and run it by her?

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Texting and social media likes are not dating or a relationship. Let her 'like' you in person. Texting too much and too much social media nonsense is the fastest route to the friendzone.

we've met up and things all went well. it's just, on social media she never 'likes' any of my new photos.
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