What Am I To Tell Her?

[joeladam]

There's this girl i met online(on fb actually),we've been chating for like a week plus now and this have been going smoothly. Last night, i asked her to tell me about herself and she asked why did i wanna know about her?

I really like this girl, i mean i'm falling in love with her. So i think this is the defining point, where i either get out of the friend-zone or remain locked in that penetentiary..

Please what am to say?

[Gloworm]

Tell her you like her. You want to make her smile, make her feel beautiful, hold her hand, go to a movie, have a picnic at the local park, discover her dreams, ask her to dance, take her to a scenic spot, take her to the fair, whatever it is you would like to do.

[Andrina]

It's called a crush. Love takes being in a relationship for a long time to happen. Her question doesn't sound very promising that she's interested. I'd let her make the effort from now on in communicating. If she doesn't contact you, it means she's not interested. If she does make an effort, ask her if she'd like to meet you for coffee or a smoothie or something simple like that. It's better to get together in person instead of being a perpetual penpal. If she rejects the offer, you can then stop wasting time with her and move on.

 

Also, cool your jets. If in your mind, you think you're falling in love with someone who you haven't even met in person, you will come off as a stalker.

[Clinton]

Online, hmmmm. Any chance you'll ever meet in person?

[Jeffbobo]

You've not even met her yet. Take it out of virtual reality fantasy land and into real life and ask her out. Until you do that, it's all just fantasy. FB and online dating sites are people putting their best foot forward; smoke and mirrors. Actually get to know her the old school way.

[dave_1966]

Chatting for a week before you asked her about herself? Really?

[HeartGoesOn]

So i think this is the defining point, where i either get out of the friend-zone or remain locked in that penetentiary..

Please what am to say?

 

How do you see yourself in the "friend-zone" when you haven't met in person yet? I would ask her out, and if she refuses to give you a straight answer, move on, as she's not worth your time or effort.