luisannalui Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 So, I know that my ex lied about being with baby father (She did to push me away, she is now on medication as I put her on a nervous state with my impulsiveness). I stopped posting pictures with the other girl (As we don't have anything and she is only a friend) As soon as I did this she stopped posting picture with baby daddy. The other day I posted a song named "that woman" so she posted on her Instagram "that woman is happy" I don't want to post things that are direct-indirect toward her. Lately, She being posting things about ex's so this morning she posted "If you don't show me that you care for me- Why I should do it?" I don't know how much information she has about me wanting her back (Only talk about it with baby sitter- both giving us time) or if its about the music I posted about her being the only one. I kinda feel that she is upset at the fact that Im not following her and asking to come back as I used to do before. But she is the one that left so she is the one that should come to me. Although I know there are chances she might come back if I come to her. I really don't know how to take this. Friends are saying that she is upset at the fact that I'm not paying attention to her as before. She post and than erase things- such as this morning post a picture at the doctor showing her hands, where she has my name on it- But erased it already. I'm block on Instagram, but she knows that I have her password. But I don't get in, "Fake account" -Im also block on Whatsapp, since I ignored her when she texted me after I moved from our apartment. (I left the keys with the baby sitter so nonsense to reply as baby sitter was contacting her) Im not block on her facebook. I have not block her anywhere, I find that childish and giving her the importance of immaturity. I do want reconciliation, but not like this. I want it us talking as two grown adults. She is 22 , Im 27. I know you guys will say, if she wants to come back she will by herself. But why all this? In which stage she is at right now? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 Her posts may be to prove something to herself or her family/friends or the babydaddy she went back to. She's in a typical just broke up stage. But why all this? In which stage she is at right now? Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 Why are you stalking? Why haven't you blocked? Don't you have better things to do with your time? Link to comment
burlesquebeaut Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 Please stop trying to read into her cryptic social media statuses/pictures/etc. Who knows why she's doing what she's doing; you'll just torment yourself overanalyzing, If you want reconciliation like adults... don't play into immature social media games. Link to comment
Clinton Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 Indifference??? What indifference?? You're basically stalking her. Link to comment
Tind Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 So, I know that my ex lied about being with baby father (She did to push me away, she is now on medication as I put her on a nervous state with my impulsiveness). I stopped posting pictures with the other girl (As we don't have anything and she is only a friend) As soon as I did this she stopped posting picture with baby daddy. The other day I posted a song named "that woman" so she posted on her Instagram "that woman is happy" I don't want to post things that are direct-indirect toward her. Lately, She being posting things about ex's so this morning she posted "If you don't show me that you care for me- Why I should do it?" I don't know how much information she has about me wanting her back (Only talk about it with baby sitter- both giving us time) or if its about the music I posted about her being the only one. I kinda feel that she is upset at the fact that Im not following her and asking to come back as I used to do before. But she is the one that left so she is the one that should come to me. Although I know there are chances she might come back if I come to her. I really don't know how to take this. Friends are saying that she is upset at the fact that I'm not paying attention to her as before. She post and than erase things- such as this morning post a picture at the doctor showing her hands, where she has my name on it- But erased it already. I'm block on Instagram, but she knows that I have her password. But I don't get in, "Fake account" -Im also block on Whatsapp, since I ignored her when she texted me after I moved from our apartment. (I left the keys with the baby sitter so nonsense to reply as baby sitter was contacting her) Im not block on her facebook. I have not block her anywhere, I find that childish and giving her the importance of immaturity. I do want reconciliation, but not like this. I want it us talking as two grown adults. She is 22 , Im 27. I know you guys will say, if she wants to come back she will by herself. But why all this? In which stage she is at right now? Instead of indirectly communicating with her why don't you call her on the phone and have a heart to heart with her so you know for sure if she wants to give the relationship another try Link to comment
luisannalui Posted July 22, 2016 Author Share Posted July 22, 2016 Instead of indirectly communicating with her why don't you call her on the phone and have a heart to heart with her so you know for sure if she wants to give the relationship another try If I do that, I'm demonstrating that she can get mad at me whenever she wants, and leave as she know I will take her back. She left , she is the one that have to return or at least show some intention. Lets assume that those posts are for me, which I'm 90 % sure- is an immature game. I will definitely take her back if she comes and seat down to talk about what happened and what can we do to be better and improve. But this back and forth game its just telling each other "You do the first move, not me" Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 If I do that, I'm demonstrating that she can get mad at me whenever she wants, and leave as she know I will take her back. She left , she is the one that have to return or at least show some intention. Lets assume that those posts are for me, which I'm 90 % sure- is an immature game. I will definitely take her back if she comes and seat down to talk about what happened and what can we do to be better and improve. But this back and forth game its just telling each other "You do the first move, not me" This is silly. You both sound too immature to be in any type of relationship. Link to comment
luisannalui Posted July 22, 2016 Author Share Posted July 22, 2016 This is silly. You both sound too immature to be in any type of relationship. Maybe you are right. Im not ready yet to be in a relationship neither with her or someonelse. So you will talk to her even knowing that she was the one who left? Link to comment
Jibralta Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 Indifference??? What indifference?? You're basically stalking her. Agreed. It sounds like you're both going crazy on social media, not just your ex. Block her and get on with your life for real. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 22, 2016 Share Posted July 22, 2016 Maybe you are right. Im not ready yet to be in a relationship neither with her or someonelse. So you will talk to her even knowing that she was the one who left? You cannot be friends, if there are feelings. Be done. Link to comment
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