Kok Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 So I'm in a little bit of a dilemma with this gold I've been seen for a little while. We have been together for about a year and things have been moving very quickly. We are both in our 30s and at the time in our lives where we are both thinking about settling down. Now I have always had really high standards when it comes to serious girlfriends. I mean she is really really pretty but I am a little concerned about her past. She has indicated stories in the past that make us sound as if she had been a sugarbaby and had sugar daddies. And quite frankly this disgusts me! We are both around the same age and both attractive young people. And from what she's told me the thought of her of being with old overweight men physically makes me sick. Plus she make me pay for things that should be coming out of her pocket. I don't mind paying for dinner and dates, that's normal for man but she just expects things and asked me for things(clothing, make up,& daily money. But on the other hand occasionally speaks about saving money and how important it is to hold back on things. She also indicated that she may have slept with a guy just to get ahead in her career. This really disgusts me too. And the thing is that she started seeing this dude a year before she broke up with her previous Fiance. On top of all this she is so clingy and I'm starting to feel suffocated. I do have feelings for her but she is really annoying me , but I don't want to hurt her feelings by just cutting things off with her. What do I do? Link to comment
lostlove76 Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 I would cut it off and not worry too much about her feelings. She doesn't sound like a very stand-up girl if everything you say is true. Gold-digging, cheating, sleeping with someone to get ahead in her career, being a sugarbaby. Maybe none of it is true, but you must have some reason to believe that is. On top of that, the only thing you mention liking about her is that she's attractive. You mentioned that twice. There is more to life than physical beauty. I say drop her and look for more substance, both within yourself and a partner. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 You sound very superficial. I read in your previous post that you can't keep it up with her, and her vage is too loose . Time to move on. Doesn't sound like a good match. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 'Disgusted' is mentioned at least twice, then there is 'makes you sick' and of course 'suffocated'. Unfortunately while she may fill some 'girlfriend material' checklist point, she seems to be rather high maintenance. 'Really really pretty' gets old faster when you have to deal with all this. Now is a good time to consider if there are too many compatibility issues and differences in values/goals. Do you want to go further? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 Yes even the sex sounds bad. her vage is too looseThis one?: Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 Plus, he calls her a gold digger. HMMMMMMMM. Sounds like there is a real bond, here. Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 just go already. everything about her, including her sex organs is repulsive to you. if you want a pretty barbie doll so badly though, then suck it up and deal with the wide vagina and loose morals and money. if looks aren't important enough to literally pay that kind of price for, just effing go. she just expects things and asked me for things(clothing, make up,& daily money. i honestly don't understand this crap. who the heck asks their partner to buy them stuff and give them pocekt money. daheck is that??!! unfortunately, not the first time i see it on here. not to mention her career furthering moves and openly admitting she's after money. i don't even know what you're asking here man. this is disgusting, agree. just make a choice, is it disgusting enough to give up on pretty looks for? somehow i wonder why it hasn't occured to you to look for a good looking and decent woman. what is keeping you with this swamp ****? Link to comment
Hollyj Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 just go already. everything about her, including her sex organs is repulsive to you. if you want a pretty barbie doll so badly though, then suck it up and deal with the wide vagina and loose morals and money. if looks aren't important enough to literally pay that kind of price for, just effing go. i honestly don't understand this crap. who the heck asks their partner to buy them stuff and give them pocekt money. daheck is that??!! unfortunately, not the first time i see it on here. not to mention her career furthering moves and openly admitting she's after money. i don't even know what you're asking here man. this is disgusting, agree. just make a choice, is it disgusting enough to give up on pretty looks for? somehow i wonder why it hasn't occured to you to look for a good looking and decent woman. what is keeping you with this swamp ****? This is what he likes. He knows who she is, or he wouldn't have stayed. He is just as superficial as she is Link to comment
Clinton Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 I think you deserve each other. Link to comment
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