mingkaichen Posted July 17, 2016 Share Posted July 17, 2016 my boyfriend of ~7 months made a picture of another girl (our mutual acquaintance, who he finds very attractive) his phone background. he then hid this information from me for a while, but eventually showed me, claiming it was just a joke. i know hes faithful and all but now hes like "i dont think ive done anything wrong" and im like cmon man thats just not cute Link to comment
missmarple Posted July 17, 2016 Share Posted July 17, 2016 Does he have a really bad sense of humour? Link to comment
mingkaichen Posted July 17, 2016 Author Share Posted July 17, 2016 yes. i just want him to apologize but i also dont want to make a big deal about it. Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted July 17, 2016 Share Posted July 17, 2016 how old are you guys??? how is it a joke? what kind of a joke? which part of it is funny? where is the pun? Link to comment
mingkaichen Posted July 17, 2016 Author Share Posted July 17, 2016 we are both 18. i don't get the joke either, but apparently his friends found it funny. Link to comment
elliesays99 Posted July 17, 2016 Share Posted July 17, 2016 sounds to me like he's trying to get a rise out of you, or trying to impress his friend by ?? being a douche lord ?? I'm not sure. He has to know there is a line between being funny and disrespectful. And can't disrespect you in the process of trying to make his friends laugh. Link to comment
Nuindacil Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 I'd say it is a valid reason, yes Besides, it doesn't seem that he respects you or values you enough. I mean, having that as background, okay, whatever, everyone does stupid things sometimes. But not giving a real apology? Hmmm... Link to comment
Batya33 Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 If he thinks it's funny then do the same -make sure it's a really hot guy. Link to comment
Sportster2005 Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 we are both 18. i don't get the joke either, but apparently his friends found it funny. They find it funny because it humiliates you. I see no humor here, just immature boys having a laugh at the expense of a young woman. Raise your standards. Link to comment
SoulTaker Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 They find it funny because it humiliates you. I see no humor here, just immature boys having a laugh at the expense of a young woman. Raise your standards. I agree with Sportster. They're telling you it's a joke in order to disguise its real meaning, which is to humiliate you, and see whether you have any respect (back-bone) for yourself. Leaving him will put the joke on him. You can do better, just trust your instincts. Link to comment
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