I Need Serious Advice, Please!

[daizydukes]

Today, my husband of 2 years tells me that his mother is coming to stay with us tomorrow night and that I need to leave. He has said that he wants me gone while she is here. And that she wants me gone while visiting as well.

 

I have tried to ask why, but he keeps stating that I should know why. And I even tried calling his mom to find out what was going on, but she will not take my calls!

 

I have no idea what is going on. I have never had a problem with her and I always thought her and I got along very well, no issues that I know of.

 

The worst part is I have a one-year-old that I stay at home with.

 

I have no access to money. I have been trying to look for work and even start a couple of businesses, but I have chronic health issues so my hours are scattered.

 

I owned a successful business before, but had to let it go when I got pregnant due to my health issues.

 

I am trying to start it up again, but it is going to take some time unfortunately.

 

In regards to his moms visit: My husband has suggested that I stay in the van overnight somewhere. I do not have the money for a hotel.

 

I feel like I am missing something? I know at this point he cannot love me if he does this? Any advice? Please? Is this abuse?

 

Thank you.

[Wiseman2]

Just stay he can't kick you out of your own house under any circumstances.

In regards to his moms visit: My husband has suggested that I stay in the van overnight somewhere. I do not have the money for a hotel

[Clinton]

I have a feeling that creature who lives under the bridge is back.

[ParisPaulette]

So tell your husband he can either pay for you to stay in a nice hotel and give you money or they can suck it up buttercup.

 

Be sure to put Metalllica's "Don't Tread On Me" full blast on the damn stereo every chance you get. It's your house too isn't it? So tell your "husband" to get stuffed and dear old Mom too. IF that's really who is even coming over.

 

Seriously, this is just abusive. It's time to work out seeing a divorce attorney and getting yourself free. But leave your own house? No. Tell him he can pay for it if he wants it done. And not at any crappy little flea place either.

[qwaspolk82]

Today, my husband of 2 years tells me that his mother is coming to stay with us tomorrow night and that I need to leave. He has said that he wants me gone while she is here. And that she wants me gone while visiting as well.

 

I have tried to ask why, but he keeps stating that I should know why. And I even tried calling his mom to find out what was going on, but she will not take my calls!

 

I have no idea what is going on. I have never had a problem with her and I always thought her and I got along very well, no issues that I know of.

 

The worst part is I have a one-year-old that I stay at home with.

 

I have no access to money. I have been trying to look for work and even start a couple of businesses, but I have chronic health issues so my hours are scattered.

 

I owned a successful business before, but had to let it go when I got pregnant due to my health issues.

 

I am trying to start it up again, but it is going to take some time unfortunately.

 

In regards to his moms visit: My husband has suggested that I stay in the van overnight somewhere. I do not have the money for a hotel.

 

I feel like I am missing something? I know at this point he cannot love me if he does this? Any advice? Please? Is this abuse?

 

Thank you.

 

Are you sure his mom is actually coming? Or is he just trying to get rid of you for the night for some other reason?

 

Tell him he can't kick you out of your house. If his mother has a problem with you, she can stay in a hotel and he can go meet her outside the house. If my ex husband had ever told me this crap when we were married I would have told him to get out and he could go sleep in the car. This is the most insane thing I've ever read.