ocman 4 Posted April 25, 2016 Author Share Posted April 25, 2016 Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought him back...lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 3,176 Posted April 30, 2016 Share Posted April 30, 2016 Wow...so these subtle signs turned out being the tip of the iceberg? This is all on her don't beat yourself up. They must have a lot of unfinished business and on/off nonsense...be glad you are out of the crossfire.She went back to her ex-husband... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
notalady 8 Posted May 2, 2016 Share Posted May 2, 2016 Wow...so these subtle signs turned out being the tip of the iceberg? This is all on her don't beat yourself up. They must have a lot of unfinished business and on/off nonsense...be glad you are out of the crossfire. I believe he was talking about the last time they broke up, 1.5 years ago after dating for 6 months, because I asked why did they break up then. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ocman 4 Posted May 10, 2016 Author Share Posted May 10, 2016 I believe he was talking about the last time they broke up, 1.5 years ago after dating for 6 months, because I asked why did they break up then. Exactly, we've been back together since 2-20-16. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ocman 4 Posted May 10, 2016 Author Share Posted May 10, 2016 Ok, I just got off the phone with her and she told me, not to be mad or upset because I won't be invited to her son's birthday dinner at a restaurant this Saturday because her ex is going to be there and since we've never met, she doesn't think it's the best time to introduce me to him because of the intimate setting. I guess he's not bring his girlfriend either out of respect for my girlfriend, not sure why, he's been living with her for over a year . I understand, but I'm very disappointed because I feel like I'm being cheated out of spending time with her and her son on this special day. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 3,176 Posted May 10, 2016 Share Posted May 10, 2016 I would bow out graciously too. Because it's really about the boy and his day. So being with his mom and dad and family is important. Sometimes you need to put aside dating wants when kids and their needs come first. her son's birthday dinner. her ex is going to be Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ocman 4 Posted May 10, 2016 Author Share Posted May 10, 2016 I hear you, but the ex has been physically abusive and very verbally abusive, so I just don't like the fact that she may be subjected to that. I know she can stand up for herself, I just can't stand bullies! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 3,176 Posted May 10, 2016 Share Posted May 10, 2016 Other people will be there. Even though her being with him for the sake of their child without your being invited upsets you, you'll have to relax and trust her judgement. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ocman 4 Posted May 10, 2016 Author Share Posted May 10, 2016 you'll have to relax and trust her judgement. I am relaxed and I do trust her judgement. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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