Beastelstein Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 A little background: I'm a slightly Asperger's 24 year old male. I've had really bad luck with establishing any sort of relationships I've been rejected numerous times, had random circumstances get in the way and got catfished when I was younger despite the adversity I'm finally starting to get a little more self-confidence. I've been using tinder for a little while now and it hasn't really yielded anything other than one hook-up and a couple awkward dates. Last week I began talking to this girl and her and I have very similar interests, have a mutual attraction to eachother and have already discussed a potential first date/other plans . Unfortunately she just went home (about 200 miles away) until January and while 2-3 weeks might be a relatively short time but having to maintain communication without face-to-face interaction makes me uneasy. We have talked everyday for a little over a week but the conversation seems to be going a little stagnant. I don't really find many women I'm very compatible with and I'm kind of concerned that I'll either be too pushy with trying to talk and weird her out or I'll stay out of touch too long and nothing will happen. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 what's your question? Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 How about just keeping in touch every few days? Ask her if she is ok with that. That way you will have things to chat about, but not be 24/7 with each other. The connection should still be there. Good luck Link to comment
Beastelstein Posted December 15, 2015 Author Share Posted December 15, 2015 How about just keeping in touch every few days? Ask her if she is ok with that. That way you will have things to chat about, but not be 24/7 with each other. The connection should still be there. Good luck Thank you that sounds like a practical approach. I'll just try to keep anxiety in check in between. Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Thank you that sounds like a practical approach. I'll just try to keep anxiety in check in between. Just take things easy, don't rush it, and don't over contact her. Link to comment
Beastelstein Posted December 16, 2015 Author Share Posted December 16, 2015 Just take things easy, don't rush it, and don't over contact her. Will do. At the very least the conversation had left off on a good note. Link to comment
BeachComber Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 well - what are your intentions? Where do YOU want things to go with her? Do you see her as "tinder fodder" or as a possible friend? Be straight with her about this... then let the chips fall where they may. Link to comment
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